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Is it normal if one partner always Initiates Sex?

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  • 2 years ago
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    In a relationship, who is the one to typically initiate sex? Whether or not you take turns making the first move, or one of you is the de facto adult fun-times initiator, you might wonder: as the question suggests, that Is it normal that every time you or the other partner is the one who always initiates sex? And, if that's the case, what does that mean about your relationship? The reality is that every relationship is different, and no matter who initiates sex the most, there is no "wrong" way to go about it. It really just depends on how everyone feels about the arrangement. The trick is to have open and healthy communication around the subject of sex, and that, unfortunately, is where things can start getting a little tricky. It's not always easy to speak up and be vulnerable if you are frequently the initiator and possibly starting to feel rejected. Conversely, if your partner takes the lead in that department, you may not even realize how they are really feeling about things.

    I would say : IT’S COMMON FOR ONE PARTNER TO INITIATE SEX MORE THAN THE OTHER.

    If, in your relationship, one of you is more likely to kick things off in the bedroom, you’re definitely not alone. “There is usually one person in the relationship who is more of the sex initiator in a relationship then it typically means, that sex is more important for the more frequent initiator. It means it’s a priority, and it shouldn’t be felt like it’s a negative unless the initiator uses the behavior as controlling using pressure for the partner to engage. Most couples have different levels of sex drives and it’s important to honor both and meet some place in the middle. It could also just be a case of one partner being more comfortable about expressing their desire or that they have a higher sex drive in general. “This doesn't mean [the partner not initiating sex doesn’t] want you, only that your desire for sex is easier to express than it is for your partner.

  • LZ-PT
    Lv 4
    2 years ago

    Normal but among most of the couples, one partner is more active. a study says, "women could revolutionize their sex life by taking the initiative (but men still do it twice as often) to read more visit::: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4512288...

  • 2 years ago

    I always want to be dominant but in actual terms we are like 50:50 sometimes its he and sometimes me. Personally I think relationship means certain equation between the two partners on which they agree and feel comfortable. Most of the time I wanna know my partner that how much I love him, I wanna make him feel "loved" and that really ignites the flame in him to pay me back with more vigour.

  • 2 years ago

    eventually, no.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    Yes.

    It is also normal if they take turns initiating.

  • funny
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    Women wants men to initiates !

  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    Nope. Means that other person “just ain’t into you”.

  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    it's normal if the female does

  • Petter
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    Yes, perfectly normal. Humans are habitual as ****.

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