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Am I having a emotional affair?

I have a guy I have been seeing every week(not like relationship) but I feel like I am having an emotional affair with him. When I am with him I get nervous.He smiles at me and sometimes touch me.When I touch him /his hair or hand he never pulls away or say no(he has a significant other)One time I said I love you a couple of times and he said it back a couple of times.We hug and he squeezes me so tight.I never see him that way with other women.He also sometimes stares at me too.He even gives me compliments saying My lips are hot or follows me around the area like really close.or make funny sounds or jokes.I think I am ready to make the next move(kiss him)is he scared to kiss me since he is dating or should I make the first move and kiss him?he also has a nickname for me.

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  • 2 years ago

    You're both treading in dangerous waters. If he has a significant other he is cheating with you already.

  • Leto
    Lv 5
    2 years ago

    If he's willing to cheat with you then he's more than capable of cheating on you. Be careful. This won't end well. Best of luck

  • 2 years ago

    No, that's an affair.

  • 2 years ago

    If you feel like you do, you do. So yes.

    Also cuddling doesn't help.

    Don't kiss him though. Keep your distance. He is dating so if anything happens it should be his move. He is just checking the boundaries, don't bite into it (even better to push him away as he is dating).

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