Agree or disagree: If fat mean girls do not want to be body shame they should stay back or perphaps be ready to be bashed.?

Shame is a common social control method. We use it all the time for everything. Is being fat shame-worthy, is the question. What is it about fatness that we see, socially, as a group, requires correction? It isn't actually the fat that is the problem, it is what the fat represents: sloth, avarice, gluttony, laziness. Clearly, not all fat people have those bad characteristics, but it is not a rare association, so I do not see a "stop shaming me because I am" whatever I am, if it is something I have control over, as a valid complaint. Some people are biologically fat people, and those folks have a right to complain that they are being falsely called lazy, gluttonous, etc. via the "fat" pejorative, but there are plenty still for whom it applies.

So, the next time someone complains about fat-shaming, change the term to lazy or gluttonous or whatever, if you think it applies. If they seem to be normal people who happen to be big, though, back off on the fat complaints. this requires you to actually learn something about the person before you call them out. Darn fairness, making us judge people for who they are instead of what category we want to simplistically shove them into.

agree

Any mean person is putting themselves at risk to be bashed, man or woman. I don't agree to being evil especially not to any kind person, but when someone opens their mouth with evil things, those evil feelings often get reciprocated.

Hm.

Disagree.