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What is the level of interest?

This guy told me after we went out, that he’s not looking for anything other than hookups-that was decided before we went out. (I’m assuming because he was in a 5 1/2yr relationship a year ago, and he’s 27 so he wants to live his college years now since he couldn’t before) but before he moved out of his house and got roommates, we use to text all day everyday and in total throughout the last 9 months we have gone out 3 times for drinks and or apps. I’m not questioning what he wants right now cuz he told me but, I have 2 questions...one, do you think he will keep me in the back of his mind when he’s ready or ride this out -as friends and occasionally hookup?? I haven’t hooked up with him yet and he has tried getting me to come over soo many times. And 2nd question is, do you think he’s really attracted to me or somewhat interested in me to take me out 3 times, text and snap (texting and snapping comes in sprees)

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  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    If he was faithful during his long relationship he'll probably need years of meaningless hookups before he's ready to delver back into love. You might hang around on the periphery as a pal to wait for that. But at this point he's being honest with you so you should be honest with him. It's fair to say to him that you're looking for more than just a hookup.

  • 2 years ago

    he is looking to hook up with anyone so maybe

    he will, but I doubt if he is really interested.

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