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Do you think he will come back?

This guy told me after we went out, that he’s not looking for anything other than hookups-that was decided before we went out. (I’m assuming because he was in a 5 1/2yr relationship a year ago, and he’s 27 so he wants to live his college years now since he couldn’t before) but before he moved out of his house and got roommates, we use to text all day everyday and in total throughout the last 9 months we have gone out 3 times for drinks and or apps. I’m not questioning what he wants right now cuz he told me but, I have 2 questions...one, do you think he will keep me in the back of his mind when he’s ready or ride this out -as friends and occasionally hookup?? I haven’t hooked up with him yet and he has tried getting me to come over soo many times. And 2nd question is, do you think he’s really attracted to me or somewhat interested in me to take me out 3 times, text and snap (texting and snapping comes in sprees) I also noticed he hasn’t watched my last couple snap stories for the first time since I’ve known him-doing it for my attention??

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  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    If he's 27 and still texting "all day" he's definitely got some delayed maturity issues. Whether he'll remember you when he grows up is an unknown. I guess you could always leave that door open. Just don't delay your own life and growth with other people in the hopes he'll come to you.

  • 2 years ago

    A 27 year old fellow who makes this declaration is declaring, with experience under his belt, that women are to be his plaything and no more. And he likely really feels that way. He might not in another 6 years but he does now. I'd simply listen up and ease on out of his way completely. No point in lurking in the background for 6 years. He's not a child. He's an adult who has made a declaration to you. Which, in it's implications, means he really doesn't care squat what you think about him. But he'd like it if you opened your legs for him KNOWING that he doesn't care squat about you or what you think of him. That can be pretty easily found if that's attractive to you!

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