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What do guys look for in a woman?
4 Answers
- Anonymous2 years ago
Let me put it this way: lots of guys are allergic to tobacco-smoke and/or cats.
Most of us are not looking for a supermodel
- Anonymous2 years ago
Depends on the guy.
Their first attraction will always be for how she looks, and every guy has his own preferences for that.
From there . .it depends on the guy.
Guys with self-esteem problems look for needy, insecure women who they can control, boss and even intimidate .. in order to not feel like she might leave them. Some of them turn out to be wife-beaters; and some of them will cry and promise to never hit again .. but then they hit again.
Self-centered guys don't care about anything other than sex and how you look. Some, more self-centered, want to be waited on. And some of them (since unhappy people are self-centered) are also into controlling.
Men don't seek commitment unless they are either needy (see above) or they have their career & life & finances where they want them to be and THEN they look for a relationship. And take at least a year to make up their mind about the particular girl
Otherwise, lots of men are just looking for sex, but not commitment.
Mature and emotionally-healthy men are, like all, first attracted by how you look. But they start dating you and over a year, they size you up for how complete, whole, caring, happy you are as a person. They don't care for women who get upset too easily, who are insecure/needy/desperate. And you don't win them by falling all over yourself trying to make them happy .. .but if you are self-centered and don't care, that turns them off too. They are looking for an emotionally-healthy and whole woman, someone who has a healthy sense of independence without pushing the guy away. A different but equal lady to be a partner with them in life.
- choko_canyonLv 72 years ago
Depends on the guy. All guys are different, just like every other person in the world. Did you seriously think that all guys are looking for exactly the same things in a woman??