I need advice on my relationship?

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My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years. In the beginning we had loads of sex, of course but, now not so much. I have a high sex drive and she claims she does as well but, most times when I initiate she rejects it. Although,  whenever she initiates and decides she wants to have sex we do. It's not that part in particular that's the problem it's the fact that we dont have it as often as I would like. It reallllly frustrates me and we have talked about this numerous times. We are getting married in the near future and this is the only negative aspect of our relationship. We are lesbians btw, and I just don't understand it. She's the dominant one in the relationship and she doesn't always liked to be intimately touched, it's gotten a lot better than in the beginning because she let's me go down on her more not but still not as often as I would like. Any advice??

seedy history · Answer

If you feel like your relationship is going down hill then getting married in the near future doesn't sound like a good plan.

ez2tock2 · Answer

Relationships give you experience on Right and Wrong ones.

If you force yourself to be comfortable or tolerate the way you two 
are with each other for FEAR of being alone or not ever finding 
anyone again. You are NOT GOING TO MAKE IT and all your Fears 
will happen anyway, after you have lost time, money and patience 
with your "Wrong Mate".

Anonymous · Answer

Well, this happens all the time really, I would talk to her about it, try to make things more interesting, but well for example in my current relationship, I don't live with her, I don't want to live with her or get married, we only do it once or twice a week on average, she has a daughter, we just live separate lives and are kind of friends. Well over a decade ago, when I was with a younger girl, I used to get so frustrated at not being allowed sex multiple times a day I jumped up and down like a chimpanzee.

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