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Been involved in a debate about this on social media. So let me get this straight:?

So according to one lady -- in a relationship -- the man should take care of everything and the woman "shouldn't have to do ****", which I highly disagree with. Another person believes that sex and intimacy in a relationship is not an obligation, which I slightly disagree with. I mean, for example -- if I'm gonna take care of the bills, take care of the woman, provide for the kids (if there are any), etc -- would I not be entitled to a little love --- a *******, some pussy, a home-cooked meal -- something?

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  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    Demetrius, you have a very skewed view of women in general and marriage. Here's some of your background: "I'm 19 years old, about to be 20 in April. My wife is 18, turning 19 in January. We dated for over a year, got engaged in April this year.? We've been married only about 5 weeks so far, and I'm already tired of this, already tired of being in a relationship, period, let alone married. We get along okay, but she barely pays me any attention anymore, always on that damn phone or watching television; she's messy, doesn't like cleaning up after herself so I have to do it, wants kids right now and doesn't seem to get that I don't want them right now, spends big money when we have **** to pay, and would rather go hang out with other guys or girl instead of her own husband; we live currently with my grandma/grandpa while our place is getting fixed up. I feel like my freedom's gone (because it is). My questions are: 1) Did anyone else get married young, and did you regret it? 2) Why or why not? 3) How did you handle it? 4) What would you advise me to do?"

    If you don't want to deal with people who are mentally impaired, don't marry people who are mentally impaired: "A question regarding legal guardianship? So my wife is 19, I'm 19, and she has ADHD, as well as a learning disability. Back when she was still 17 -- from what I understand -- her mom went to court with lawyers and a judge and all that about legal guardianship. Her mom says that she is still my wife's legal guardian, and she is the payee (as in, the disability money goes to her, I think). Is she right about the legal guardianship thing? And if so, how long can she be the legal guardian? Wouldn't a marriage nullify that entire thing? Please explain"

    Perhaps your wife is INCAPABLE of being in an adult relationship. Or perhaps you could move out of Grandpa's house (with your wife) and try living like an adult in your own place.

  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    Yes, you've got it straight. That's what people said. Thanks for keeping me informed.

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