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GUYS Will I hear from him again?

I’ve gone out with a guy a few times, and he just wants to hookup ( he told me) but I want to still be friends with him so I’m nervous to do it. Eventually he lost interest in asking me to hang when I couldn’t hangout after our 3rd date. The last time we went out (3rd date) we made out in my car, but that’s all we’ve done together (he asked me to come in but I denied). 3 months later** I decided to text him to see what he was up to last weekend and he we agreed to meet at a bar Saturday since he was gonna be there for a birthday party. When that day rolled around I texted him in the afternoon to confirm and he didn’t text me until Monday morning saying hey sorry I never made it out on Saturday how about you, then I said we never ended up there and he asked where we went and I told him then he was basically like oh nice. Will I hear from him again?? The next few social media stories I posted, he watched within 15 mins which was quicker than it’s been since we haven’t been “talking”. Please don’t say move on because I already know... but I am interested in at least hanging out with him again. Do you think I’ll hear from him again?! Maybe over the summer? Do you think he has someone else right now?

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  • Ricky
    Lv 6
    2 years ago

    You rejected him. What do you expect. When a girl refuses the date. The guy moves on to the next girl

  • Janet
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    Guys look to girls for sex.

    And IF they are ready to settle down, then they look to girls for marriage/kids.

    They do NOT look to girls for friendship.

    If he isn't interested in you sexually, he's not interested in being friends.

    I would not hold my breath waiting for him to contact you.

    I think you should read this book .....

    “We men are very simple people: if we like what we see, we’re coming over there. If we don’t want anything from you, we’re not coming over there. Period. Please highlight this part right here so you can always remind yourself the next time a man steps to you: a man always wants something. Always. And when it comes to women, that plan is always to find out two things: (1) if you’re willing to sleep with him, and (2) if you are, how much it will cost to get you to sleep with him.”

    ― Steve Harvey, “Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment”

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