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Guys-will I hear from a guy again maybe when he’s ready for more?

I’ve gone out with a guy a few times, and he just wants to hookup ( he told me) but I want to still be friends with him so I’m nervous to do it. Eventually he lost interest in asking me to hang when I couldn’t hangout after our 3rd date. The last time we went out (3rd date) we made out in my car, but that’s all we’ve done together (he asked me to come in but I denied). 3 months later** I decided to text him to see what he was up to last weekend and he we agreed to meet at a bar Saturday since he was gonna be there for a birthday party. When that day rolled around I texted him in the afternoon to confirm and he didn’t text me until Monday morning saying hey sorry I never made it out on Saturday how about you, then I said we never ended up there and he asked where we went and I told him then he was basically like oh nice. Will I hear from him again?? The next few social media stories I posted, he watched within 15 mins which was quicker than it’s been since we haven’t been “talking”. Please don’t say move on because I already know... but I am interested in at least hanging out with him again. Do you think I’ll hear from him again?! Maybe over the summer? Do you think he has someone else right now?

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  • Alan H
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    You are more likely to hear from him if you stop rejecting him

  • 2 years ago

    What I have learned is that if someone wants to see you they will make time to see you. It doesn't seem like he is putting in much effort, and sure if you want to try to hang out with him then you should try, but he doesn't seem to reliable. I'm positive that you will hear from him again though. He will just be a guy that goes in and out of your life. He could have someone else or he could just be focusing on himself. More likely he is talking to multiple girl and probably not looking for anything serious.

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