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Guys, do you think I will hear from him again?

I’ve gone out with a guy a few times, and he just wants to hookup ( he told me) but I want to still be friends with him so I’m nervous to do it. Eventually he lost interest in asking me to hang when I couldn’t hangout after our 3rd date. The last time we went out (3rd date) we made out in my car, but that’s all we’ve done together (he asked me to come in but I denied). 3 months later** I decided to text him to see what he was up to last weekend and he we agreed to meet at a bar Saturday since he was gonna be there for a birthday party. When that day rolled around I texted him in the afternoon to confirm and he didn’t text me until Monday morning saying hey sorry I never made it out on Saturday how about you, then I said we never ended up there and he asked where we went and I told him then he was basically like oh nice. Will I hear from him again?? The next few social media stories I posted, he watched within 15 mins which was quicker than it’s been since we haven’t been “talking”. Please don’t say move on because I already know... but I am interested in at least hanging out with him again. Do you think I’ll hear from him again?! Maybe over the summer? Do you think he has someone else right now?

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  • Girl
    Lv 4
    2 years ago

    You said don't tell u to move on but all the signs lead to him not being very interested. He said he just wanted to hook up. Even though you want to be friends it sounds like you are interested in more which will end up disappointing you. Stop wasting your energy and time there are plenty of men

  • bubula
    Lv 6
    2 years ago

    You are being treated like dirt and you're hoping the treatment will continue? You'll hear from him again if you keep telling him you want to get together. It will be if and when he feels like it, i.e., has nothing better to do and no one else for company, and it will be with his expectation of sexual activity, not friendship, hon. You're wasting your time and deluding yourself. Sorry to be so harsh, but you're staring at red flags and imagining they're green.

    Best of luck.

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