Ok so it's come to my attention I'm pretty average looking?

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What do I do to get good at dating, maybe be perceived as a little more attractive? I'm on dating sites so far, I do have a good personality, I'm quite intelligent the shallow stuff never used to matter to me until I began dating people say it isn't about look...but it kinda is. Women tell me that they don't mind dating average guys but hey here I am, matching with tumble weeds 🤷 here's a photo to really give the idea

seedy history · Accepted Answer

You're a good looking guy. 
Meet people in person who enter into your life in  some circular fashion. You never need be the best looking guy in the room. You've amazing eyes and a very good looking mouth. You're fine. Just try meeting women in person instead of on-line

? · Answer

If it makes you feel any better, most people are not attractive.
Just look around.  Oh yeah, there's a cute girl here and there,
but we tend to not see the ones that do not appeal to us.  Take
notice and you will begin to see what I mean.  So, what do we
do now?

We work on our strengths.  We develop strengths we are weak
in.  Step up your wardrobe.  Rethink your facial hair.  Practice 
a higher level of vocabulary.  Appear to others as someone who
has it all together, even if you don't.  Look successful.  People
are drawn to those who are successful.  She will come.  Build
up yourself and she will come.

And lose that shirt.

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Anonymous · Answer

Face it most people that are on dating sites are just looking for hookups, not long term relationships. The long term requires much more effort and people nowadays want quick rather than quality. If that isn't you then I would suggest joining a group of people that have some of the same interest as you. Focusing ion shallow things is moving in the wrong direction, in my opinion.

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Ok so it's come to my attention I'm pretty average looking?

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