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martin
Lv 7
martin asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 2 years ago

What to do about angry family member constantly complaining about her past life and blaming others in household?

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  • 2 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    You regard her as damaged and bitter, and vow not to be so negative yourself.

    She'll have been wasting her precious personal energy on complaining and feeling hard done by, when she could instead have been rebuilding her own life.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    8 months ago

    Hi Martin, spend more time with her. Show and tell her you Love her. Always initiate contact, I.e call her, write her or speak with her.

  • 2 years ago

    Omg that’s my sis, she blames my dad for drinking

    But nobody in my house drinks

    Makes 0 sense

    And we were all raised them same way

    She was just the favourite

  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    Nothing. She is the one who is angry. You be your good self.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    Walk away, really is the only solution that I have found. It seems that more hold on to this sort of blame game and hate, then grow up and leave it behind.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    rnove out if youre lucky enough to be over 18

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    Simply say that once you become an adult you are in charge of and responsible for your choices concerning your life. Some people today are simply angry about everything. It’s a societal illness.

  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    Tell her to put her big girl pants on, stop living in the past and start building a life and a future for herself.

  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    yessssssssssssssssssssssss

  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    Tell her that she needs to grow the Fup. Yes, stuff happen in the past, either you get better or bitter.

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