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Is getting married at 19 a good idea? Any advice?!?

Me and my gf have been dating for almost 3 years she’s 19 and I’m 18 we are both done with high school and a couple months ago we moved to France together for college and now we live together and she’s been talking a lot of marriage and I was wondering if it is a good idea to get married At a young age? And if so what is some advice you can give me

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    If you're emotionally and financially prepared for marriage, and this is the person you want to marry, then make your plans. It's your decision not ours.

  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    You are both young. You have plenty of time to get married. Finish school first, get yourselves good jobs. Save money. In the mean time you will both be growing, ideas change as you get older. While you are doing this, one or both of you may find someone else, you want to be with. If you are meant to be together, you will still be together. Do not have any children until you are married and are established. Best wishes for your future.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    It seems unwise. But as you have chosen to live together anyway, why not?

  • lala
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    You are way to young to get married

    Focus on your career

    and then later on on marriage

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    2 years ago

    this is a decision between you and her. If you’re questioning it, I am sure you’re not ready for that type of commitment. If you plan on being with her for the rest of your life, you have many many years to marry her. I’d definitely focus on making sure this is something you really want to do , instead of impulsively doing it because she is hinting it. I feel like you have made a lot of commitments already to show her you want a future with her and there should not be any rush to such a big step.

  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    no get married when ur at least 25

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