Call, text, or leave a message when reaching out to an ex.?

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I am not going to go into detail but due to various reasons and situations, I know she still has feelings for me. I am wanting both women and men's (men who have personal experiences) opinions. Is it better to send a text or to call her or to call at a time I know it would go directly to voicemail and leave a message?

So women, if one of your ex's were to reach out to you, how would you like it to be done? and say you still have feelings for the guy.

Men, what are your experiences, what approach did you take and how did it work out?

The only information that I will give on here is that is has been almost two years and i have it on very good authority that she misses me too. So based on my vague question, what do you think I should do? She does not use social media, so messaging her through facebook or whatever is not an option.

Thanks!

tony · Answer

Always on my mind and in my heart. Hey [Insert Ex's Name Here], you crossed my mind. How's it going? I was thinking maybe we could meet for coffee and catch up some time."
suggesting specifics of when to meet up can definitely feel like you're applying some pressure. Instead, leaving the ball in their court by suggesting you meet up "some time" is a great way of opening up the possibility without coming across as too pushy. This text is super versatile and can totally work if you just want to reconnect as friends, or if you're interested in getting back together but aren't sure where their head is at.

Hi [Ex's Name], I've been doing some thinking and I really regret how things between us ended. I understand if you're not up to it, but I would really love to see you."

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Call, text, or leave a message when reaching out to an ex.?

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