Hey how do i know if i am gay?

If you are sexually attracted to other males and not to females, if all your erotic dreams are about other guys, and if it’s thinking about other guys that turns you on when you’re wanking, then you’re gay.

You don't - and you don't HAVE TO. NOBODY does.

I realize this might come as a surprise, what with your friends and social media all telling you that everyone is supposed to know their sexuality. Well, your friends and social media are incorrect on that point.

The fact is that nobody knows for sure exactly what their sexuality is when they are young. They DISCOVER it by experimenting. They ask people out. They get intimate with others. And that's how they eventually discover what they enjoy, and what they don't. THEY DON'T KNOW FOR SURE UNTIL THEY'VE TRIED IT (or at least considered it).

So you CAN'T know in advance. You might have enough clues to be pretty sure you're interested in boys or you're interested in girls, or you're interested in both - but you won't KNOW until you've acted on those interests a few times. And that's how it is for EVERYbody, no matter WHAT they say in advance. (For example, there are LOTS of people who felt they were absolutely sure they were straight for 15 years, and then one day they discovered they'd really been bisexual all along! Some women discover that they're lesbians after being married to a man and raising kids with him!)

It's a matter of DISCOVERING by DOING - not KNOWING ahead of time.

Generally it's just that you are attracted to people of the same gender. From your comments, it might be more complicated to put labels in your case. My suggestion is to skip the labels and just let love take it's course in whatever form it takes (as long as it's consensual and legal).

Easy. If you are attracted to the same sex exclusively you're gay. Other men are beautiful.

Are you gay? If yes, then there's some bad news.

are you assuming my gender???!!!?!? I ACTUALLY don't have a gender so.......

Your name's Haley, right? So...

If you like DlCKS = straight

If you like TlTS & PUSSlE = gay