Was it just a booty call or does he miss me a little bit?

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I dated a boy for a about a year (were together 2) and we broke up for college. Since college we did not speak often and hooked up randomly over breaks. he made it very clear he did not want to get back together and i was okay with that. we had weird tension all of the summer break and one night while very drunk i made out with one of his best friends & that night he found out and got very angry with me. We ended on kind of an awkward note after that and spent the rest of the summer as friends i guess but would always make eye contact across the room when at parties together. We both went back to school and i have basically forgotten about him but when i went to visit my best friends (who go to school with my ex) he texted me on saturday and asked what my plan for the rest of the day was i replied i don’t know and he said he wanted to say hi to me since i was here & hopefully we see each other. we ended up pregaming w his friends and him and went to a party and after i came back to his place and we hooked up. we haven’t talked since which i do not mind and prefer honestly but i am a bit curious why he went out of his way this time compared to the summer and before then?? do you think maybe he missed me?

Anonymous · Answer

most likely a booty call. don't disappoint yourself.

The Pupa · Answer

I would say he is feeling horny and alone. You're his easy option since you already know each other and you are on for hooking up.

Coach Simon · Answer

Difficult to tell. Sex might be fun obviously, as are drink and drugs no doubt, but outside of a strong and well established relationship it can turn out to be disastrous. Not only can pregnancy and STDs result, but sexual intercourse can often be emotionally bonding (especially if regular or frequent), and when the strong friendship, mutual values and interests etc. are not in place this can prove emotionally confusing. Just read some of the questions here, or watch some of the daytime t.v. shows with very unhappy people who have had sex too soon and/or with the wrong person. It can also cost a girl her self respect and the respect of others (including future boyfriends).

Alan H · Answer

Maybe he missed you.....only time will tell: certainly he used you for what he wanted......and got!!
Also, deal with that drinking or it may be more than just making out another time

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Was it just a booty call or does he miss me a little bit?

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