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Do you ever feel like cutting people off?
I have this friend that takes almost every opportunity to make herself look superior to me, and it is obvious to everyone. Some of our mutual friends are vocal and correct her. But we grew up together and so I feel like if I was to have revenge the whole friendship is probably going to go down the drain. But I am just tired of her antics. We all think it is because I have been married to my man for 6 years and she to hers for 8 but he cheated on her consistently. And she got it in her head that I slept with him despite the fact that I never had. And then she tried to flirt with my husband and he recorded her and showed me. Btw her husband is a crack head now and was a coke head then. He slept with everyone including men who paid him money so that he could buy his drugs...no way would his penis ever enter me. Her mind must be going to mush from all the drugs she is doing now as well. I am just getting fed up with her tbh and want to cut her off so badly.
6 Answers
- LilyLv 62 years agoFavorite Answer
That sh!t would not fly with me if she was in my life. The moment I am accused of something I didn't do and it is painfully obvious to everyone that I would never do such a stupid thing, I would immediately cut that person off. I've had enough problems with people like her in my younger twenties and now that I'm getting older I am now understanding the trend why people cut others out of their lives that are just total crap. Let me make it easier on you for you to make your decision: What does she have to offer you (emotionally)? Can you call her up at any time and talk to her about nothing for hours? Is she a great support system/someone to lean on in tough times? Or does she make times tougher on you? If anyone in my life fits those negative qualities, sayonara. I do not have time to convince drama mongers that I did not sleep with their husbands or any type of garbage of the sort, and neither should you. You are better than this. Start acting like it.
Source(s): Just some tough love from a gal with a hard exterior. - FoofaLv 72 years ago
If you haven't cut this person out of your life yet you're a masochist, plain and simple.
- 2 years ago
I have cut a number of people out of my life. Friends are supposed to make you life better, not miserable.
- seedy historyLv 72 years ago
A couple of years ago I cut off a friend because I'd come home feeling abused when we visited.. weird.. so I ditched her and went silent for 6 weeks. She could not forgive me. Until two years went by. Then we took back up again and it's been very nice. She no longer seems to need to profess superiority to me. But, you know, when you've had it, you've had it! Be good to yourself. Just be good to yourself.
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- Barb OuthereLv 72 years ago
A friendship doesn't have to be forever. If who she was then is so different from who she is today, and who you now are, and you two are way too different now so that if you had met now (instead of back then) a friendship would never have developed.
Sometimes you just outgrow a friendship. Chances happen that change the friendship too. This is one of those times. Let it go and move on with your life.
