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Im going to a wedding and my ex will be there. Why is he happy I am coming?

He didnt like me at all when I walked out. He didnt appear to court the day of our divorce, and I havent spoken to him in more than 15 yrs.

The bride to be told me he was excited and happy to hear I am coming to the wedding.

Do you think he is up to no good? Could he be planning to do something rotten, or am I just paranoid?

Update:

Nobody cheated, but he drank quite a bit, and was never home. He left for days on end and I just got tired of being alone. He told me never to speak to his parents. Meanwhile I was raising a 13yr old from a previous marriage, and it just wasn't a good situation, so I packed my son and left.

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  • Amelia
    Lv 7
    2 years ago
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    After 15 years, I imagine he's curious to see how you're doing.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    He's moved on and leaving the past behind.

  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    I question your choice in husbands - "He pooped in the shower, and left it for me to clean up.. says he forgot. "

    I have no desire to see/meet/talk to my ex husband. He's an ex for a reason, and I've lost track of that fact.

    Would I be pleasant? Yes. Would I spend any time with him? No.

    Would I care if he would be "happy" to see me? No.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    2 years ago

    You are paranoid. You don't stop loving someone just because you divorce them. I don't doubt he is excited and happy to see you again.

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  • 2 years ago

    Maybe he wants to show that he has someone better than you

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