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Giving my number to a stranger?

I’ve been eyeing on this cute guy who always takes the same bus as me in the morning. We sometimes glance at each other but I’m sometimes too shy to look up. Today as we were all getting off from the bus, I let him go through and he gave me a big smile. 

I want to know if this is childish. My friends think before everyone gets off the bus I should leave my name and my number on a note and tell him that he “ dropped something” and then walk away. We are both in our late 20’s I presume. 

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  • 1 year ago

    You don't even have to "drop" it - just hand it to him. If you are shy about it, hand it to him right before either of you leave the bus.

  • Layne
    Lv 5
    1 year ago

    Never ever give out your # unless you are close friends that maybe use a burner phone.  Meet in public because maybe they are violent or a rapist.

  • 1 year ago

    It's kind of totally high school, but so what.  Breaking the ice with someone often requires a bit of cheesy stuff and awkward moments, and there are worse ways to declare your interest.

    I dated a lot when I was young and single, but I took the easy route so I could avoid all the cheesy awkward stuff, and I still had to deal with the cheesy awkward stuff.  I played in a rock band, not for the money if you know what I mean, and it worked well.  But there were still countless awkward moments with girls (rock stars still have awkward moments, and groupies are girls too), because there is just no escape from awkward moments.  It's like the will of the gods or something.

    While I would suggest more direct eye contact and starting casual conversation, I wouldn't say handing him your phone digits is a bad idea.  There are lots of worse ways you could do it.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 year ago

    It won't leave a good impression and it will make your bus rides awkward. You need to strike up a conversation and gauge his interest. If that goes well you can ask for his number, if not it's easy enough to disengage and move on.

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  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    I would be very very cautious about giving a stranger my phone number. It creates too much of risk of my privacy being compromised, too much risk of some negative outcome. I'd give him something more like an email address, a special email address that it wouldn't be a big deal to cancel the account. That why if the stranger turns out to be "bad news" you're not in a situation of changing your phone number. 

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