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College shy?

I'm not the most social person around strangers but I'm very nice. I have a few close friends but keep it at that, never looking to make any new. Anyway I've been in college online for about a year now and in taking A&P I have to have a lab class... I'm hoping for some tips to help me. I'm sure there will be times we are going to need partners and I'd like to establish some form of relationship with a classmate early on to prevent it being awkward. My first class is Thursday... any good ways for me to pick someone or how to open up?

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  • 1 year ago

    I’m guessing you are a Girl, if not, just change the sex. 

    Guys and Girl are still JUST HUMAN BEINGS. 

    KNOW that Rejection will never Kill you OR Discourage you 

    from liking the next person or the next or the next or the next.  

    Most people say NO, because No is SAFER for them. 

    Later on THEY MIGHT regret they said No and feel like they 

    blew their chance with you.   

    This happens because THEY ARE AS INEXPERIENCED AS YOU.  

    Anything and Everything you want to Change or Improve 

    about yourself will require PRACTICE.   

    There are many many things school taught you that you 

    (most people) will NEVER use in real Life. 

    You probably realize this by now.   

    The solution to your problem/dilemma is simple.   

    Depending on your personality, it may NOT be EASY, 

    but it’s still Simple.  BUT YOU HAVE TO DO THE WORK!!   

    BECOMING POPULAR & BUILDING SELF CONFIDENCE   

    both REQUIRE PRACTICE.   

    PRACTICE is just a way to LEARN to get better.   

    (High School / College / New Town / New Job)   

    Women have the Power of Seduction. You can do what guys do,   

    to Flirt and Hit On someone… with less effort and better results.   

    The key to Breaking the Ice with ANYONE,   

    is in the ability to make People Smile and Enjoy your company.   

    Always use Smiles, Humor and Compliments to approach people.   

    USE SMILES (to make them relax),   

    USE HUMOR (to make them Smile or Laugh),   

    USE COMPLIMENTS (to make them feel good about themselves   

    when they are around you)   

    What someone else Feels, Thinks or Wants IS NEVER your concern.   

    If YOU like someone YOUR HEART is what matters.   

    Your ONLY job/goal is to get by his side, in his company.   

    Once there, make him Smile, Laugh and Feel good about himself   

    with Compliments.   

    Wouldn’t you like being around someone that did that for you??   

    This is how you win over people. Be Likable and Be Fun.   

    MAKE THIS YOUR PERSONALITY and people 

    will look for/want to be around you.   

    All this may sound scary to you,   

    but aren't you already scared anyway…   

    And probably sick of being YOU. (the way you are)   

    CHANGE will Always Be Uncomfortable…   

    until it becomes the way you do things.   

    Practice is about FAILING, until You Get Better.   

    DO NOT be afraid to Practice.   

    Practice is just taking BABY STEPS, until it becomes Who You Are.   

    Anyone who Rejects you is just PRACTICE.   

    Anyone who Engages you is PROGRESS.   

    DEVELOP or IMPROVE YOUR POPULARITY and chances are,   

    The Guy You Want, Will Find You.   

    If you don't start PRACTICING this now, 

    you will lose out on many other  opportunities (Guys) in the future.   

    The Players call it "Having Game."   

    When you make LIFE all about you... Nobody cares.   

    When you make Life about the people around you,   

    everyone tends to enjoy your company.   

    ALSO, Keep in mind and REMEMBER-- 

    Handsome, Beautiful or Butt Ugly has   

    "NOTHING" to do with PRACTICE and Because it’s only practice... 

    it doesn't matter if you strike out over and over again.  

      

    PRACTICE is just a way to LEARN to get Better.   

    Also, if you get rejected 100,000 times.   

    There is still a BILLION guys you haven't met... YET!!!!!   

    and Visa Versa. Guys that haven't met You... YET!!!!!  

    CONFIDENCE is not about Succeeding. It's about NOT BEING AFRAID, to Step Up, whether you get Accepted or Rejected.  

    After you get Accepted or Rejected, YOU WILL "Quit"  

    Torturing yourself with Worry and Curiosity.  

    Practice is about FAILING, until You Get Better.  

    DO NOT be afraid to Practice.  

    In order to LOSE at ANYTHING... First you HAVE TOO "TRY" to WIN.  

    If you don't try, you won't be a Winner or a Loser...  

    which is just another way of saying... YOU'RE NOTHING.  

    I'm not very attractive to girls, but when I smile and 

    Spark a Smile in Them, they don't see what “doesn’t” appeal 

    to them, THEY LIKE THAT THEY ARE SMILING. 

    You can do the same with Guys.

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