Should i allow my gf to go to bars with her friends? What to do?

Don’t project your past on your current situation. Your current girlfriend is a different person than your ex was so just because your ex cheated doesn’t mean she will... have some trust/faith in your relationship otherwise break up with your girlfriend and stay single .. no girl needs their current boyfriend projecting problems for their past on them.. those are YOUR problems not hers don’t punish her for it

The saying goes.."Shame on you if you get me once shame on ME if you get me twice. She has shown she cannot be trusted. If it were me she would have been permately out of my life the first time. Time to move on.

There are good looking people all over the place, men and women alike. So what? Just because someone looks good it doesn't mean you're compatible with them, or your girlfriend is, or that anyone is going to hurl themselves at you or her for sex. I'm not sure why people have some idea this is happening constantly.

And you can't "ALLOW" your girlfriend to go to a bar or not. If she wants to, she will. If not, she won't. You're not her daddy and she's not twelve years old. She's your girlfriend, not your possession.

There's something wrong with you.

It isn’t about trying to infantilize a grown adult by controlling them but rather only dating people who share your feelings on such things. It’s fair tell someone you won’t go to bars without them and ask for the same courtesy. But if someone has a mind to do this you can’t stop them. A lot of women would tell you sod right off if you did.

Women who are committed and go to bars cheat. Tell her you don't commit to girls who go to bars and stay firm on it "you don't trust me" is what you can expect to hear. She has every right to go to bars with her friends, you also have the right to break things off!

If you're the sort of guy who allows or disallows your gf to do things, I hope she gives up on you.

What's the point of being a good person? I mean there is a God you know. Also I use to play music in bars before God changed my life. I wouldn't go to a bar and I definatly wouldn't want my lady to be at a bar. When people drink and get drunk they cheat allot of the time.

John 5

28Marvel not at this: for the hour is coming, in the which all that are in the graves shall hear his voice,

29And shall come forth; they that have done good, unto the resurrection of life; and they that have done evil, unto the resurrection of damnation.

Romans 2

7 To them who by patient continuance in well doing seek for glory and honour and immortality, eternal life:

8 But unto them that are contentious, and do not obey the truth, but obey unrighteousness, indignation and wrath,

9 Tribulation and anguish, upon every soul of man that doeth evil, of the Jew first, and also of the Gentile;

10 But glory, honour, and peace, to every man that worketh good, to the Jew first, and also to the Gentile:

11 For there is no respect of persons with God.

Revelation 21:8But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.