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need asked in Society & CultureHolidaysRamadan · 12 months ago

Can I share a bed with my non-Muslim boyfriend during Ramadan?

I currently live with my non-Muslim boyfriend due to quarantine and Ramadan is coming up. We share a bed but I was wondering if that would still be okay to do so during Ramadan while I’m fasting, it’s simply just for sleeping and nothing more.

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  • 7 months ago

    That's like asking if you can stop raping a baby during Ramadan. Having boyfriends is haram in Islam. It is a major sin. What good is your fasting when you are engaging in major sin that is mentioned as one of the thing that lead to hell?!

  • 12 months ago

    The best thing you can f can do is get as far away as you can from all Muslims and enjoy your life God does not support Islam and does not want you to be a slave to it. What god really cares about is you being a good person Remember God chose a Jewish woman to have his son and Islam wants to murder all Jews He has given you the chance to make a good life do not wast it

  • Mintee
    Lv 7
    12 months ago

    no.... actually in Islam, the very fact you are living together is a sin.. he is not your blood relative, and you are not married, so you if you want to know the truth, are to cover up in his presence.. you only show your body to your husband... sorry, but that is the truth..

  • Anonymous
    12 months ago

    yes and you can have sex with him there is no Islamic law that forbids it it is Halal

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  • Anonymous
    12 months ago

    Why do I think no one here is Muslim?

  • Anonymous
    12 months ago

    Stop wh0ring. Get married or move out. During Ramadan you should fast, pray, not do any sinful activity. Please remember to donate to charity and volunteer to help those in need. 

  • 12 months ago

    Night time only a husband can get your goods.

  • In order to make it halal, you have to agree to a nikah mut'ah contract. Make sure you negotiate a favorable price, though.

  • Anonymous
    12 months ago

    No, you shouldn't. Its totally inappropriate at all times including during ramadan. If you are serious about ramadan, you know how serious and how important it is. You wouldn't even be there, you wouldn't even be in bed with a non-Muslim especially a strange man. I think you know how I exactly mean and why. You'd be fulfilling the rituals of this upcoming holy month and the right away without getting in bed with strange men. You seriously need to work on your faith and need to look at your relationship with Allah. What does your relationship with Allah mean? ask yourself and is it worth it to destroy that special bond with your Creator just to be in bed with strange men and is it worth it to be taken by your desires and the attractions of this world? Is it worth it?

    Do you even know what Ramadan means and why we have this holy month? Do you even care? Where is your consciousness of Allah?

    You need to ask yourself these questions and need to reevaluate if you even value your faith, your relationship with God, your priorities, your soul, your afterlife, your deeds, your morals, the strength of your faith, your consciousness of God and need to make these reflections.

    You're allowing yourself to be taken by temptations and setting up yourself for ugly consequences that are just waiting to happen and may even make you regret it. It all starts with an innocent step, and then it turns into something very harmful with consequences. This simple step of getting into bed with a strange man is where disaster can occur instantly and tempting the accursed satan. I think you know just exactly what I mean and why I say.

    What you do is up to you and whether you even care about protecting the next generation, if you will ever have children in the future and if you care about protecting or preserving their rights over you, and their honor as well.

    What you do is between you and Allah. Only Allah Al-Jabbar can judge you and He alone can bring you closer. I think I have said enough and say it out of sincerity, out of care.

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