Do you feel like you're becoming a Hermit?

Over the years, I have really began to put a lot of distance between me and others. It went into overdrive after my divorce 10 years ago. I don't trust anyone, and the girlfriends I met, I just could not commit again.

For the last three years I have remained completely single. No dating, no one-night stands or booty calls. Nothing. Instead I like to focus on my hobbies and kids. As a single father, with the kids living with me, I like to hang out with my kids, mess with my hobbies, work on my house and just do my own thing.

The part that has caught my attention lately is that so many people are freaked out about the Coronavirus and being socially distanced. None of this is bothering me. It's business as usual for me. I looked back, and I spend so much time in loneliness early on, that being alone, or on my own is all ready how I am. I am no longer lonely or looking. I have come to realize that I am now a real hermit.

The MGTOW movement from about 2015 on really made an impression on me. I self actualized back in 2018, and I just don't put a high value being with others, don't really care about money or having stuff other than what I have, like my classic Mustang, and stuff like that. I feel like I have what I wanted to achieve, and now just enjoying my own world now.