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Should I accept her approaches after she has rejected me in the past?

There is this girl's house that I went to for a party and I tried to flirt with her but she crossed her arms and had a frustrated look on her face and told me to leave. I left. I cut off all contact with her. No texting or calling. Six months later, she comes to my house acting all friendly and stuff. She said we should go to a car meet. I think she was riding the "CC". I don't want someone else's leftovers. What should I do? Should I take her or should I abandon her like she abandoned me?

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  • Anonymous
    10 months ago

    Do her a favor and stay away from her. You have no idea what was going on the first time when she told you to leave. She might have just had bad news, been having a bad day, broken up with a boyfriend, felt sick, or many other things. Regardless, anyone who describes a girl as "someone else's leftovers" shouldn't date women ever. 

    @NONAME: calling a woman "leftovers" or thinking they're "leftovers" is a bad line of thought. I'm not saying women can do no wrong; not at all. There are bad women or women with a bad attitude.

    What I'm saying is that everyone, male and female, has a past and viewing someone as "leftovers" because they might have had sex with other people in the past is an unhealthy and dehumanizing viewpoint. 

    Obviously I don't know this girl and I wasn't there to view her mood that first occasion at the party so I'm just theorizing as to why she might have behaved the way she did.

    By the way, I post anon because I had someone reporting all my answers (which didn't violate the CGs/TOS and were later restored.)

  • Sassy
    Lv 4
    10 months ago

    Just ignore her 

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