I’m I right in feeling disrespected ?

I have a family member who always love stealing people friends, she has done it to my sister and now wants to do it to me. Basically I have introduced my friend to this family member and we have gone out a couple of times. I didn’t mind doing that because at the time I didn’t think my family friend would want to be friends with her. But lately every time I tell her I want to see my friend she gets excited even I was planning to go holiday with her she suggested that the girl should come. She has her set of friends and would never invite me out with her. She guards her friends. So they haven’t seen each other in quiet sometime but when they did my friend came over and gave my family members the biggest hug, she didn’t even give me one. I’m might be a little petty but I don’t want my family member being friends with my friends while she hides hers. What shall I do about this because I’m close with my family member but i don’t want to share friends.