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Should I try to be friends with this girl again?
I'll try to be as detailed as possible. This girl and I had been dating (or at least went on one date) for almost 5 months from February up to this June. We had talked about hanging out more (and potentially more dates), but Covid-19 broke out and put a stop to that. We had a talk about where we stood as an item: I asked if we were boyfriend/girlfriend, she told me that we shouldn't move too fast and to see where it goes. At the end of April, our workplace was moving to another city closer to where I live. She didn't want to travel that far and decided to find another job closer to her place. Since then, I kept in touch with her almost every day. It wasn't bad at first, but there would be some days where she wouldn't respond to my messages for a period of hours or even at all. Every time I asked to hang out with her on weekends, she would say her work didn't allow days off to new employees or that she was busy in general. She would always say she wanted to see me, but that work or something else would come up last minute. Eventually, I saw on her Snapchat that she was hanging with another guy from her work. Then in late June, she told me she really likes this guy and that it's not going to work out, essentially ending the relationship there. I haven't talked to her since (NC rule), but have thought about still being friends. I've talked to my friends about it, most of them say I should drop her permanently, but that ultimately it's my decision. What do you all think?
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- MamawidsomLv 79 months ago
No. That ship sailed a long time ago. She is not interested in you as a boyfriend or FWB or anything else. She is dating another guy. She told you to leave her alone and that there was no hope for a relationship with you. Leave her alone. Grieve the loss of whatever it is you think you might have had with her. Move on.
- 9 months ago
make no mistake about it we are still operating on primal desires, humans are just as wild as another animal. Keep in my mind these females do not care about your emotional health and that is the most important thing. Always put your self first and safeguard your self like your life depends on it because it does. NEVER BE FRIENDS WITH A WOMEN. Either you are sleeping with her or seducing her, don't waste a second of your time dealing with females that are not interested in you, they are waste of time and frankly they will toy with you until the end of time if you let them. Personally I seduce then drop her and move on until I find a women who proves her self consistently over a few months then I will consider dating. Be cold out here these females are pathetic they will do anything to get a hit of attention, they are just addicts no different than the crack whore on the corner.