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One of my friend has been away she moved to   another country and as soon as she got back she met up with all these girls that have been bullying me lately. She went on a trip with them for 5 days. Her sister is controlling and because I wont do what she want she has decided to turn a lot of people against me. I don’t mind that she doesn’t call me straight after but it’s been a while. I have a feeling she will go back to the other country and not even call me or see me. should I ever see her as a friend again. Because when she is away I always call her and check on her. It is showing me that she has sided with them. Also before she won’t ok the trip with them she never told me, I just found out on social media. She could have just mentioned.

chris n · Accepted Answer

So basically this 'friend' of yours is no longer a proper friend is she.  You haven't changed and still view her as a friend and are disappointed with her.  Now that you know she prefers nasty people who bully you and doesn't speak very much, I'd be inclined to just turn her into an old acquaintance.  Someone you know and used to like a lot but you have now moved on from her.  OK to say hello and pass the time of day with her - but otherwise you aren't really interested in how she is or what she does or who she's friends with.  Go out and be pleasant and friendly and smiley to lots of other people and in that way you will gain a new circle of friends.  You are older now than you were when you and this ex-friend got together.  You have outgrown that relationship so it's time to form lots of new ones so you will never be alone and out of those new friends you may well find one or two really close new friends far nicer than this old acquaintance of yours.  Good luck

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I wouldn't think of her as a friend any more but to be sure you can ask her but don't be surprised if she still doesn't respond.

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