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How can I make my dad not hate me as much now, after my uncle told him about something I regret.?
My a**hole piece of $#!+ uncle ratted me out and told my dad (who I don’t have a good relationship with) im gay and a drug user.
Backstory: my uncle came to visit (he’s gay) So my friends and I took him to the gay bar we all go to. We all got completely smashed and my uncle and I took an Uber to my place and drank some more. He smokes crystal and offered me some, and I did a little bit like an idiot. He ended up giving me head that night cuz I was high and horny, then the next day he acted like nothing happened l. I was really upset/mad at myself and him for what happened but chose to just ignore it cuz he was. TURNS OUT he freakin ended up talking to his brother MY DAD! And telling him I begged him to give me oral and that I smoked drugs with him. My uncle hates my Dad, so I know he said that to him to be a drama queen and just stir the pot..... but regardless now I’m screwed, and my Dad has disowned me and just really laid into me verbally in the most disgusting way. What can I do to try and make things right with him?
4 Answers
- Anonymous7 months ago
You tell Dad that the Uncle lied, and you never did a thing with hi,
- Anonymous7 months ago
Disown your uncle. In fact get the rest of your family to disown your uncle too.
Take responsibility for your life. You chose to smoke. And regardless of who begged for it - you participated. Accept it and move on. Was that a one time thing for you or do you seek out guys? If you are gay just come to terms with it. If you are straight - it was just an experiment. If you have a drug problem get help.
In time your dad may come around. Just keep telling your dad the truth. Live the best life you can.
In the mean time make a new family. You don’t get to pick your birth family but you do get to pick the one you create as an adult. Choose wisely. No drug users or anyone like that uncle of yours!
- Anonymous7 months ago
"im gay"
Nothing wrong with that.
"and a drug user"
That has nothing to do with being lgbt, drug use begins as a choice usually leading to addiction then dependency depending on the type of drug and the user's physical and psychological makeup (some drugs are worse than others), all roads of continued usage leads to a troubled life, like your uncles (He smokes crystal and offered me some).
Uncle, "He smokes crystal and offered me some", also known as a dirtbag.
