why do American girls not like me ?

through out my whole lifetime so far only 3 girls have liked me and out of that 3 only 1 was my GF for a short time and when i try to talk to girls most of the time they ghost me or friend zone me and some will say "i have a boyfriend" why does this happen to me? the only girls that i connect with with are foreigner usually from the UK or South Korea, UK girls have never ghosted me and south korean girls get deep with me also ive tried everything from online dating to talking with my piers once i've tried going to a bar but everyone was a lot older then me and i dont really like drinking so i dont really search there the only i haven't tried was speed dating i feel like thats not for me because what if i connect very well with the first girl im just going to think about her when im talking to the other girls you know anyways i've short of gave up on American girls i just want to see what people think about my experience im currently talking with a few girls from south korea