How did you become gay ?

I WAS BORN THIS WAY BEING GAY AND PROUD

How did I become an lgbt person, simple, I was born.

I don't know and  I don't care.  

I just am..  

Sounds like you need to work on why girls don't like you.

It could just be the type of girl you are attracted to.  

The girls you have been hitting on are obviously smart and can see through your manipulation. You need to hit on a dumber class of girls who will fall for your game.

I haven't become gay. I was born gay. There wasn't a day I suddenly started to think: "do I like men?" No, I've ever known that.

No offense, but it doesn't sound like you're gay so much as it sounds like you've decided being gay is a choice because pretending to be gay is easier for you than owning up to the fact you're a screw-up.

Girls not being interested in you isn't what makes you gay.  It's you not being interested in them.

I would suggest instead of trying to pretend you're gay, you put in the hard work of trying to figure out what it is about you that turns women off, and work on fixing those personal flaws, because as a general rule if you just can't meet a woman, it really is you.  You may have to spend a lot of time working on meeting the right woman, but most men do.

The one you meet may not be the one you set out to meet, but they're out there, so if you just absolutely can't meet one, at a certain point, that's on you.  Pretending to be gay is just a way to shift responsibility off yourself, and you need to stop doing it because it's not fair to either yourself or to any actual gay men you become involved with.

My story was similar but different, i had a kink on this guy and suddently felt more confident displaying attraction towards him at the eyes of my girlfriends, but then i realize he wasn't into feminine body proportions like i did in myself so i just move on and tried to realize my dream of staying shorter and cute.

Answer:  I did not become gay,  its just how I am.

Additional detail.

You seem to be selective with your memory.    If in high school you pretended you are gay to be with girls,   Yet I suggest you could not make a move on a girl as to do that would have exposed you.  Therefor while in your mind you may have said I am making a move of these girls,  clearly they did not see you as doing that. 

You are not the first person who had sex after taking drug/s. 

Its interesting to see how you attempt to link your homosexual desires to drug use but then announce you are no longer using drugs, but are gay.  Therefor by your own description you were gay before and after you had a drug abuse problem and was even gay in school. 

For most true gays it is an inherited wrong Chromosome that makes them gay.  Maybe in your case personally it took your gay experiences to make you accept you were gay.  Possibly the drugs have also damaged your brain and helped make you gay.  Some men turn gay as the hormone that makes their brain sexually attracted to females dwindles so their brain changes to being mainly sexually attracted to males.  Many older gay men tell me they were straight as young men and married females but as they got older they started to be sexually attracted to males and less attracted sexually to females.

  My guess is you were always at least bisexual but struggled to admit it until the drugs made you lose your homophobia and you allowed yourself to be the real you.

it just happened without any logic reason, i was straight but in my 20 year something strange happened, something pushes me to be gay and still that way for one day, next day i return to be straight for 30 days, then i turn to be gay for 2 days, then i return to straight for 29 days, then gay for 3 days and return to straight 28 days until the opposite, gay for 28 days and straight for 3 days until gay for 30 days then i stayed so until today now i’m 30 year, all this **** happened without any control of me that is wierd

An interesting story.  I wonder if it could win a Pulitzer for best fiction.