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Do you ever feel sad that you can only reach climax with men even tho you rather be with women?

I never really thought about my sexuality until after my uncle raped me. In high school I dated girls, and I still find girls attractive. I never felt sexually satisfied with women tho. In order for me to be sexually gratified I seek out random men to top me to re-create that experience from when my uncle raped me. I have tried getting pegged and using dildos, but I need to have the feeling of a man for the psychological aspect. I don’t want to date men, but I really can’t have sexual relationships with women so all my relationships with girls have failed. Anyone one else feel like they are doomed to be gay ?

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  • Anonymous
    6 months ago

    Hitler's homosexual partners were many.

    Homosexuals are not Christian; they're free-masons.

    Lenin's homosexual partner was Zinoviev (but also Bronstein ... once).

    All these leaders (Hitler, Churchill, Stalin, Roosevelt) had Jewish blood in them and engaged in debauchery.

    According to Grigoriy Klimov, three stages of degeneracy are

    1)sodomy (anal, oral, masturbation, pedophilia, incest, etc.)

    2)insane asylum

    3)physical deformities in children (horse foot, rabbit lip, wolf jaw, different length limbs, etc.)

    Homosexual Lenin was put into an insane asylum and didn't have kids even though he was married to Krupskaya.

    Degenerates are usually aggressive and end up in jail.

    Jail doesn't make you gay. Gays go to prison because they're super aggressive.

    Degenerates are usually told to become monks but Judaism doesn't have monkhood. So, these aggressive degenerates tend to become politicians.

    Karl Marx forked Engels.

    In hell, 4 biggest sinners are (in this order)

    1)Marx

    2)Engels

    3)Lenin

    4)Stalin

    Lenin had syphilis. His brains were the size of a walnut. Why? Because degenerates drink vodka and experiment with drugs.

    According to Saint Prophet Healer Vyacheslav Krasheninnikov, vodka dries up one's brains; forgive me.

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  • reme_1
    Lv 7
    6 months ago

    Call the gay center and explain that you need to talk to a therapist.

  • 6 months ago

    I'm bisexual!                   

  • Anonymous
    6 months ago

    i really do feel doomed to be gay, i was 22 year when that happened, i was straight and i have had sęx with several women then suddenly something is forcing me to be gay, i lost the attraction to women and feel disgusting of p*ssy and don’t want to be with them anymore, in other hand i start feel more attraction to boys and become really hard with them, all these happened without any control of me, this is weird and surprised me but i’m not sad and i’m really happy to be gay

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  • Anonymous
    6 months ago

    I've seen dozens of questions over the years from people claiming to hate their homosexuality.  But I have zero faith in the idea that a sexual encounter as a child can instill irresistible appetites for same-sex.  It's far-fetched and illogical on the face of it.  There's no evidence for that - no studies to suggest or support it - I know of NO one personally who claims that they've experienced that.

    Yes, there are studies that show that a number of homosexual people were molested by adults as children - but none of them ask whether the child became homosexual due to the molestation, OR the adult molested the child due to perceiving the child's pre-existing homosexuality.  The latter seems more likely to me - but in any case it's not justified to jump to the conclusion that the former must be true.

    Common sense suggests that a child forcibly subjected to something against its nature would react by rejecting and avoiding everything that it relates to that traumatic experience (resulting in behaviour such as jumping off a bridge to avoid the sex).  It also strongly suggests that a child who is homosexual in the first place is: A) more likely than other children to be chosen as a target by a homosexual/bisexual pedophile (most pedophiles prefer opposite-sex children), and B) more likely to conflate their personal preferences with a homosexual pedophile's attack, making it harder for them to differentiate between being a victim and being somehow responsible for their own trauma.

    I'm sorry you feel doomed to be gay.  It might be that a mental health professional could help guide you to a different way of feeling.  Best of luck.

  • Anonymous
    6 months ago

    If that story is true, you should get your uncle arrested. I don’t think all gay people are born that way. A lot of them have stories like this. It has been proven that gay men are significantly more likely to have experienced sexual molestation when they were children than straight men.

  • Anonymous
    6 months ago

    I am so sorry you were raped. I hope you get therapy about this and are able to come to terms with it. Plus I hope your uncle is punished for this horrible crime. Maybe seek out a therapist used to dealing with lgbt issues - get referals from local lgbt organizations.

    Being gay is more about how you are wired. Its not like one sexual act can turn you one way or the other. There are straight men that make a lot of money selling their bodies to gay men for sex, but the on their off time seek out women. If there were no cash, they’d never do a guy again. Also there are gay men that marry straight women to conform to social norms, they don’t like the sex and when they can they have affairs with men. They just do what they have to do to make there parents happy. Often these marriges end in divorce now a days when they realize they cannot take it anymore - it’s often how lgbt headed families can start out.

    You could be someone that is straight that is in to an.al play. Maybe you would would be able to get off with a women if you had a dil.do in you or if she used a strap on with you. Its not a main stream fetish, but some women are in to it. Or just use a dil.do on yourself before being with a woman. 

    But we are not born with user manuals. We have to work it out over time through time and education and being our own best student. If you are gay it is ok and you can seek out healthy relationships. You really would benefit by talking with a therapist to work this out about the rape. But as far as coming to terms with being gay if that is really how you are get in touch with the positive aspects of the gay community. Coming out support groups, gay straight alliances, local gay community centers, volunteering for a charity or maybe a rec league or a lgbt place of worship. There is so much more to the gay community than just cheap apps and late night bars. You cannot control who you were born to and who was your birth family. But you can control the family you create as an adult. Choose wisely. 

  • 6 months ago

    I am not in your situation. But I did know of a situation very similar to yours.

    A man who was the local scoutmaster (MF) when I went to school was later found out as a paedophile. I was not in the scouts, but a friend of my brother was.

    This young man grew up, and got engaged. On the night before his wedding he jumped off a bridge and killed himself. In his suicide note he stated that the sexual molestation he had experienced by MF had permanently affected his sexuality, and he could not face getting married.

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