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boyfriends ex? trip?

Long story short.

My boyfriend and i dated in 8th grade, freshman year, and sophomore year, but never went on a trip. we brokeup sophomore year.

He started dating this girl his junior year and he took her to Colorado with his family during christmas. They dated for about 6 months and he really loved her but the relationship ended because of me. I still was in his life.

Fast forward we’re now both 17 and seniors, and dating again. He invited me to the same trip w his family.

I want to go but i’m nervous... if we go to the same restaurants will he think of her? Will he think of her when i’m meeting his extended family?.... I don’t want to miss out because we’re graduating but I can’t help but think she’ll be on his mind....

They still talk and are friends because they have the same friend group but nothing suspicious, i’m just insecure I guess.

Any tips?

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    6 months ago

    My advice?

    If the both of you want to play grown up games (aka dating),then you both need to learn to behave like grownups! It's really quite simple, you sit him down and you let him know your concerns about the matter, if he truly cares about you, then he will actually listen to what you have to say and in turn let you know where he is at mentally.

    I really think you are worrying about nothing here, but, again communication is key.

  • Anonymous
    6 months ago

    Tips? Hmmm... no, no. Can`t think of any.

  • Anonymous
    6 months ago

    New memories blot out old ones (usually)

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