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Does it seem like he’s unsure about what he is or because he’s Swedish thats why he said this? His english is pretty good ?

In a long distance relationship, the guy is 30 this is his first relationship with me he’s never had a girlfriend before but few hookups. I’ve asked many times if he’s Bisexual & he’s always said he knows what he wants & NO! When we first met I sent him a meme in that meme had a football he knew and said he’s pretty handsome he can find guys handsome, I know when he was like 12 or 15 he watch a gay porno and due to that I’ve probably asked more then 20 times if he’s bi and he always tells me he is not. One day I mentioned when we first met and was just friends he asked if I was bi I said no then when I ask him he said something like he’s pretty sure he’s not or so far he’s good and I ask why did he say that and he said he doesn’t really remember he can find men handsome say their handsome but he doesn’t think he’s bisexual but in 10-15 years who knows he said even I won’t know about my sexuality. I kinda flipped on him then he said I’m taking it the wrong way he’s talking about other people but with him I don’t have to worry he knows he’s not bi but I was still upset then told him I experimented with a girl when I was 16 and I know I can say for sure I’m not bisexual and I ask him if him knowing now that I did sexual stuff with a girl turn him on or off he said neither it’s in the past and when I asked a trick question if he would want a threesome with me and another girl he said seeing another girl touch me is like another man touching me he said I can leave if I want that

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  • 4 months ago

    Actually, no. He seems pretty secure in the knowledge of who and what he is and who and what he finds attractive. You, however, come off as insecure and accusatory. I dont expect your relationship to last much longer. He will quickly tire of being constantly questioned.

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