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I think I lost feelings for my boyfriend. Is there a way for things to go back to normal? ?

My boyfriend and his ex’s family started communicating again after my boyfriend telling me for years how much they sucked. I found this odd and by the change of the way he spoke of them, he started speaking down about my family. After this event I kind of lost feelings for my boyfriend but on the other hand I am confused and I want us to be happy together like we once were. Is there a way for things to go how they were after this, should I just move on, should I work on things... I am so confused. Advice please. 

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  • 3 months ago

    It is entirely normal for a person to harbor longings to reunite with his own tribe. The lesson here is how to incorporate the success of that WITH your appreciation of your own tribe. Lay it down for him. Immediately stop bad rapping his family and require that he do the same for yours. 

  • T J
    Lv 7
    3 months ago

    Time to dump the boy friend.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    3 months ago

    Unless you both work at it, why expect too much?

  • Anonymous
    3 months ago

    If you have to ask this, then the same feelings aren't there like before. It is time to move on.

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  • Petter
    Lv 7
    3 months ago

    Feelings very often do change. You deal with it, and then you move on. They might change again, but usually they don't.

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