Why is it so difficult as a woman to find a decent man to go on a date with?

You are looking in the wrong places. Vhevk out social groups that interest you. Meetup.com

The reason why decent men are hard to come by is because it's hard to come by decent women so all the decent men most likely gave up on finding a decent woman everyone now a days only wants sex and thats why I gave up awhile ago.

The internet has turned the world into a very small Goldfish bowl in that we can just about see one another despite the huge distance between many of us. It's widened, peoples options to a level that talking to someone is very much like being in the same room almost with the range of ways we can now communicate with each other. Boys/men now appear to have a greater edge in the dating world since the internet appeared compared to girls/women. You hear all the time about women being conned out of money and used for marriage to get into their country only to leave them soon after! Even lots of boys/men that were once good guys have become players because of the options available to them. So, you're right in what you said, although the part about just being a lesbian I wouldn't know about that being a man, however, you could be right as you have so far. As for being one of the few decent women out there, I can accept that. Such a shame that I'm a guy as you've given up on us otherwise, I would have asked you for a date, lol. Just kidding, but I wish you the very best of luck in finding someone closer to where you live.

I suspect you haven't been dating a lot of either gender during a global pandemic, the issue in my experience goes both ways as women can just be as sex obsessed and picky as men.  There are 7.674 billion individuals on this planet, I'm sure you could find at least 1 decent guy who isn't taken.

Count yourself lucky that you have the option to go on any dates. Some people don't have options to go on a date due to this pandemic. And you're fortunate that you are bi as at least you have more choices. Sexuality is not a choice. I couldn't force myself into a relationship with a guy for example as my sexuality is women no matter how much I'm let down. 

Lemme guess this is the part where we ask you if you tried going on a date with a woman?  Then you run back to your conservative Republican community of bigots and say 'AHA!!  See!!  I knew it!!  They're trying to coach people into being gay!!"

There are ample men around who respect women.  As in sex is not all they seek. 

If what you say is the case,  maybe you need to change your approach.  Maybe your giving out the wrong message.

I find it ironic that after a rant about men and their demands you would then say your going to try women but then you tar them with the same brush. 

Don't give up on men, there's plenty of good ones out there! you'll find the right one eventually, just be patient and keep trying :-)