Ramadan: How to get Allahs help?

Okay, lemme explain

1) purpose of reading Qur'an:-

- To understand Islam better. To know what has happened, what is happening and what is going to happen

- What did Allah Asked you to do?

- What is prohibited to do?

- etc dtc

When a group of Sahabas came to the Prophet and asked the prophet " Oh prophet how do we get closer to Allah?". He ( The Prophet) replied " by enhancing your knowledge".

You can learn many things from the Qur'an. It's a book or message of Allah with full of Knowledge.

Even the existence of Blackholes " Sinking Stars" and Quasars/Pulsars ( Knocking stars) is told in the Qur'an.

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2) Purpose of making Salah

 a) Fard ( Compulsory)

     - Duty

     - To prove Allah that you are amongst believers

b) Sunnah 

   -- Rewards either in Dunya or akhirah ( Allaho Alam)

Note : Prophet used to pray day and night to seek Allah's love. He even stood up nights with qiyam al layl. 

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3) Purpose of making doowa/dua/Dua'a whatever one regard it as :-

   -- You plan for something or you wish for something

   -- If God wills, you gonna get it otherwise you have to wait.

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is Allah Subhanaho wa ta ala is in control? that's an odd question. No one knows what Allah would do except Allah himself. 

Even the Prophet himself had never known what Allah would decide. So, keep doing it. Insha Allah if god wills you will get whatever helps you wanted.