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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 5 days ago

Guys: Did you get a text from a girl you ghosted?

Met a guy online 39 never had a girlfriend. Long-distance dating, I went to see him spend three days, thought we hit it off had a great time, kiss, was super sweet/kind/attentive. Came back to my town I could feel that he was trying to keep the communication the 1st and 2nd week, the 3rd week he was supposed to come to my town but after the 2nd week, he stopped communicating. Of course, I liked him and want to text him...

Guys when you get a text from a girl you ghosted what goes through your mind or what was your reaction?

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  • 5 days ago

    I'm sorry for everything. Maybe we can talk about it. I never meant to hurt you in any way. But I have. I didn't mean it. t j n

  • Will, she blocked me first. So I blocked her back. She emailed me a few months later, I told her I wasn't mad anymore but didn't want to talk to her. She wanted to know why but I never responded. If she can't figure out what she did, then there's no point in talking to her.

     

    The thing was, I posted a picture of a fat guy on my page that I thought it was funny. She wanted me to remove it and I refuse. She got mad at me and blocked me over that. And I got mad, I've been being nice to her and doing what she wants but when I want to do what I want, she's going to get mad? So I blocked her back too. I figure we're just going to bump heads when I start wanting to do what I want to do. There is no point in continuing this friendship.

    As for you. He probably found someone else. I mean if he was supposed to come to your town and didn't, he would had let you know he couldn't make it if he liked you but if he didn't even let you know. Then most likely he found someone else. Also, with the covid going on, hopefully he didn't catch it and pass and you didn't know about it.

  • Anonymous
    5 days ago

    I think it depends on what is said in the text. Given that he has never had a girlfriend before I would say that he is probably going to be looking for little signs from you to let him know that you like him. Therefore, that may be the reason why the communication has stopped - because he may be feeling that you are not interested. Therefore, texting him and telling him how you feel is a great idea. What you can do is to let him know how much you enjoy being around him and also letting know of fun places that you would like to go for your next date. Those sorts of things going a long way towards letting a guy know what your feelings are.

  • 5 days ago

    Me no'em understand question.

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