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Has wife checked out or in denial?
Hi, so my wife and I decided that we are going to separate and then divorce. We have no kids and are waiting til our lease ends in June to go our separate ways. She told me 2 weeks ago that she still loves me, but its too hard. I still love her too but admit we have problems. We still sleep in the same bed, and when we do speak, we laugh and joke and even went to the beach together for the day. BUT, for the most part, she sits in the bedroom during the evening and me in the living room, although we do eat together. Am i in denial? Is she? Are we both? Or have we gone past the point of no return?
7 Answers
- seedy historyLv 74 days ago
Doesn't sound like the point of no return. Try asking her out on dates. Why did you decide to go your separate ways? How long have you been married? Have you two tried counseling to deal with the "problems"?
- Barb OuthereLv 74 days ago
IF you BOTH say the love is still there, why are you not working on fixing what is wrong, rather than ending it?
Some couples' counseling might help sort out IF this can, or is, worthwhile saving or if you two can really let it go. I suggest giving it a go, if only for clarification. And closure?
Time will tell.
- ?Lv 74 days ago
Why don't you have a couple of sessions together with a marriage counselor, who could help you establish where you really are in the relationship and whether its time to part, or not. Good luck,
- i + iLv 75 days ago
Denial of what? It sounds like
you get along as friends, just
not as a married couple.
Counseling might help you get
things sorted out but no way for
us to guess, given no clue as
to what are these "problems".
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- ?Lv 75 days ago
Have you tried locking each other up in a room for an hour or so and just talk to each other. Maybe try to discuss what went wrong. Was there something that you needed that she didn’t give and vice versa.
- SeronyteLv 55 days ago
You haven't told us what the issues are, so we really can't help with a solution or judge where she stands if we don't know the gravity of your issues.
