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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 5 days ago

He got uncomfortable after seeing me naked?

Is that normal or common ?

We've been getting close the past 7 months and today I was sitting down and he came behind me and pulled down on my pants and was taken aback and said "oh " and just looked back at my face and stepped back...

Also, something else that's odd to me, I will massage him and he will get hard as a rock, yet is not interested in me giving him a bj which I've been dying to do.

We are both in our mid 30's, what could be wrong with him ? I asked if he is just not attracted to me and he gave me this look like I asked a stupid question then said he found me attractive. 

What reasons then could he have for not going forward ?

P.s- he is married but when I asked if he was in love with his wife he said no... so then why get worked up with me or let me touch him if he doesn't want me to finish him off ? And why act uncomfortable when he initiates touching or taking off my clothes ? 

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  • ?
    Lv 5
    4 days ago

    There are men that are totally faithful to their wives that go to topless bars and have lap dances and they let girls touch all over them so they can get horny enough to go have sex with a wife that they no longer love.

    The man may take his marriage vows quite seriously and will never cheat. This type of man will use you to get him horny. So he can go home and have sex with his wife that he no longer is attracted to.

    There's actually thousands of men exactly like this.

  • 5 days ago

    I am confused by your question.  I have been uncomfortable when I have seen a woman naked for various different reasons.  Embarrassed by my own desires.  Difficulty reconciling that this is NOT my wife. Even difficulty with the DIFFERENCES between different women. We aren't all Casanova reincarnated.

  • Anonymous
    5 days ago

    Is it normal or common?? WTF is the difference between normal and common?

  • 5 days ago

    You just chose a weirdo. Try and find a single guy with no hang ups.

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