Would you be surprised if the valedictorian from your high school killed themselves because they were still a virgin at 22?

Other than she's alive, married with kids and she wasn't just a bookworm in school.  

Graduation was 30 years ago. 

That's pathetic because your whole damn generation talk incessantly about sex online, watch a whole lotta porn - and then have less actual sex since the Victorian era.  22 isn't really that late.  When someone tops themselves for some nonsensical reason it's because they've obsessed on "a reason" as a distraction from facing their real problems.  Meditate, journal, have lucid dreams, talk to a shrink.  Explore why you feel stuck and what you can do about it.  It's not about sex, you're just using that as a symbol. 

Yes, I would be surprised.

I have no idea who the valedictorian from my high school was.