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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 6 days ago

Does he want to see me again?

Me and this guy had been talking for a few weeks and I decided to finally meet him the other night. We are from the same hometown, but had never officially met. We finally met and had some drinks, played some pool, and we had so much fun. We hit it off right away, laughed a lot, and just had a really great time together. We ended up spending the whole night with each other and we had sex a couple times. The next morning we were still having fun with each other and I felt really good about everything and he was cuddling me and making me laugh the whole time until we parted ways. After we said bye to eachother, he ended up texting me all day. He also texted me yesterday most of the day and he was still calling me "love" and told me he would like to me again soon. But today he didn't text me at all and now I really like him, I can't tell if he truly wants to see me and hang out with me again. Is he over it now after having sex or does he still want to see me again sometime? Im just confused now because he isn't texting me all of a sudden even though he was texting me constantly after our date. 

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  • 6 days ago

    Hon, you got laid and played, probably. If he's interested in contacting you again, he will, but maybe just for sex again. You are pretty quick to give yourself to someone whom you hardly know, so be prepared to be dumped, once conquored. Not everyone wants a "relationship". 

  • Anonymous
    6 days ago

    If it has only been a day since he last texted you then I would not worry; it only becomes a problem if a guy does not contact you within weeks. What I think could happening is that this guy has decided to give you a bit of space so that he does not suffocate you. Remember, even though you both are seeing each other, everyone needs some time on their own. What I would recommend you do is that you reach out to this guy and plan the next date. Not only will this allow you to see him again but it will also send him a really strong message to him about how much you like him. 

  • Anonymous
    6 days ago

    He was just after the sex.  He will contact you when he wants more sex. But he is NOT going to offer the relationship YOU hope for.

    And you have fallen for your own self-created fantasy about him. The nmore you think about him and the more you interact with him, the more you will end up suffering.No one is perfect, but until the "in love" stage dies out we do not see the flaws nor do we even know if we will still LIKE them or be able to get along with them.

    You want to know how to tell if a guy likes YOU and wants to spend time with YOU?  DON'T have sex with them right away.  If they are still spending time with you 2 or 3 months, every week, after meeting you, then the odds are good that they like YOU.  If they won't wait, then it isn't YOU that they like.

    One more tip:  when we feel confused, it is because the truth is right there in front os us, but we dont like it and don't want to see it.  So by "blinding" what we admit, we become confused.  

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