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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 2 weeks ago

(TW:) how do you deal with an abusive family?

I’m 19 and a lot has happened to me in the past, things started going down hill when I was 8. my dad is emotionally and mentally abusive. and my mom is physically and verbally abusive I don’t feel alive anymore I feel numb and trapped.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 weeks ago

    maybe you should move out

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 weeks ago

    Sometimes you just have to create some space between you and them and give them a chance to miss you. 

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 weeks ago

    If you're 19, then you're considered an adult.  Go get yourself a job, save up your money, and move away from your abusive parents.  Put yourself into counseling (you can go through a county MH/MR clinic to get it free or at a greatly reduced rate) to help you gain emotional strength.  In the meantime, keep your head down and don't respond to their abusive comments.  If your mom becomes physically abusive enough to leave marks, go to the police and show them the evidence.

  • 2 weeks ago

    Speak with someone at social services. Try to get yourself some counseling.

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