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A victory that would be gained not on a military level but more on a social level. For example, it could be the victory of a group of people against only one person who cannot defend herself. What would be the pyrrhic victory? How would you describe it?

Not yelling. Screaming.

Do you think they do it to annoy their friends?

Or is it a sign, hidden or not, that they like their friends after all?

Or are they want to see if their friends will recognize them?

Or is it a combination of all of the above?

Is revenge ever a solution for people when they discover that they goofed and are bitter about it?

Some people are confronted with their shortcomings or their mistakes, and instead of apologizing, or improving themselves, search for revenge AGAIN upon those who know their mistakes and shortcomings, or who have been the victims of them.

Can Cancer people realize that other people have emotions and feelings too, or do they force themselves into believing that others have no feelings? And what is it with their calendar and clocks? They function for them and their business but not for others. They forget others, and friends do not count for them. So it seems. Even family does not count if they do not like a member. My mother-in-law could not relate to reality when it was my reality, but she knew when she had to go to work, or to the bank, etc. I will even push and say that under the pretext of not being able to "see" reality of others, they manipulate us into being in difficult situations. Then, if we scream or grumble, they accuse us of having no feelings, no sense of duty, gratitude, etc. Why can't they have more guts? My Cancer teacher could not wait until January 1st when I kindly and politely called him to wish him a Happy New Year. He had to give me very bad news right there and then, as if I were made of concrete, or as if I could not enjoy the 1st day of the year? And many more stories like that about Cancer people. Why do they act like that?

Please take your time before answering. Thanks.

Maybe some consider that adults should only conduct business and take care of their family, and never ever play. What is your opinion?

When someone just closes the chat box, is it a sign of depression or just sadness, or is anger, or is it outrage? Or could it be simply being busy?

I want to be sure I have all the Puranas mentioning the Mauryas. Thanks for your help.

they become spiritual untouchables?

This, to me, is totally irrational, but to some, it is a modus vivendi. They like to lie as they breathe and they like to persecute innocent people. And to me, they are spiritual untouchables? Please give me your opinion. Thanks.

I need a good definition and some examples of "vendetta"? Thanks in advance.

dying or suffering?

Right now, I can't come to term with such an observation! It is shocking to me to see evil people be at ease while good people are suffering martyrdom with constant terrible pain, or being insulted, mistreated, mocked at, by terrible people. Please help me to put things into perspective. I am allergic to injustice to an extreme! I need help! Thank you in advance!

At least this is what we call it in the West: Karma. Lately, I have been the scapegoat of some Hindu people who seem to completely ignore this law of retribution: for them, lies are nothing at all, they appear to think that their lies are not even perceived. So, I would like to know if Hindus still believe in Karma?

is the slave of a very evil dishonest lying girl who constantly plots against the guest?

Or is it that he uses the pretext of his girlfriend to be what he really and truly is: a criminal?

I would like to know what makes a person a sadist. Is it genetic? Is it caused by some social perversion? Is it caused by a complex of inferiority? Or could it be also the result of an extreme patriotism turning to xenophobia and then plain craziness?

Did they all present themselves as good, saint-like, people before starting their evil work on you or on other people? In my life, I have noticed it is the pattern. They all present themselves as intelligent and very nice decent people, in order to lull their victim, then, they start undermining them by all kinds of means. But they never can have complete victory. Their evil always turns upon themselves at a certain point in time. What is your opinion?

What is the pattern we can detect in a psychopath, and what is the pattern in the behavior of the sadistic person?

I have noticed that evil and sadistic people think they are superior to their victims. They act as if the victim would never see how sadistic they are, and as if the victim would never notice all their plots. Have you noticed the same thing?

Lately, I have been in the hands of very evil people. I don't even know how to get rid of them. But do they understand that they are above all harming themselves, their soul, their own being? Or are they too stupid to understand such a basic concept, hurried as they are to commit more evil?