joseph

I am 20 years old . I have joined an internship (articleship) in a very big accounting firm . they had 3 interviews and i cleared them . since my childhood i have been a very average student in every department , be it studies , talent etc . i never had a girl friend because of two reasons . 1st i think i am shy . i dont have that confidence to have girl friend and 2nd reason is that i think that i can't concentrate on my studies if i am committed . now my colleagues in my company are awesome . they all are super intelligent . more or less every one has a girl friend . they have good communication skills . when studying they concentrate on it and when having fun they seriously enjoy themselves. on the other hand i am just average everywhere. i am never happy ...even when i have studied hard , they are always better than me .. its been 8 days since i joined this company and i am feeling depressed and jealous . i feel as if i can't do anything ..i never had fun in life ..i just can't concentrate on one thing ...can i become like them ? is it impossible for me ???

Hiiii i am a 20 years old guy . i am doing chartered accountancy course which is known for its toughness .it needs a lot hard work and determination to do it(4 years course). its been 1.5 years since i joined this course. recently i have joined articleship under CA(its mandatory) i am working in a big company named MAZARS as a intern/article .its a 3 year articleship . my main goal is success which is money and respect for me .i also work hard for that but the main problem lies in the case of girls..at my office i have friends who are all male .i have never had a girl friend and when at the office or anywhere when i see any guy and a girl together i feel extreme jealous .when my friends post their pics with their female friends or girl friends (true love or for sex)i feel very very bad. sometimes i feel like throwing these books in a dustbin and looking for love ( love+sex) .. these days i have started thinking about love and sex.i listen to songs and i keep thinking about true love making and having sex and all that stuff.....what should i do??? i don't think that i can manage both gf and studies..

CA is too tough to handle .my boss at my office also appreciates me but somehow i feel like a looser as i don't have any gf..i have also tried being friends with female but eventually i end up day dreaming about female friends too..

which is a greater feeling ?? holding hands with gf, loving her,having sex , marrying her and having average money OR , having more money , more respect , having arrange marriage , loving her passionatly forever?

I know that if i waste my time now then i would not be able to achieve my dreams of having lots of money and respect in future....

does wasting my important 2-3 years now for a girlfriend( true love + lust)is really a correct choice??

or i should just concentrate on my work?? what should i do???

Hiiii i am a 20 years old guy . i am doing chartered accountancy course which is known for its toughness .it needs a lot hard work and determination to do it(4 years course). its been 1.5 years since i joined this course. recently i have joined articleship under CA(its mandatory) i am working in a big company named MAZARS as a intern/article .its a 3 year articleship . my main goal is success which is money and respect for me .i also work hard for that but the main problem lies in the case of girls..at my office i have friends who are all male .i have never had a girl friend and when at the office or anywhere when i see any guy and a girl together i feel extreme jealous .when my friends post their pics with their female friends or girl friends (true love or for sex)i feel very very bad. sometimes i feel like throwing these books in a dustbin and looking for love ( love+sex) .. these days i have started thinking about love and sex.i listen to songs and i keep thinking about true love making and having sex and all that stuff.....what should i do??? i don't think that i can manage both gf and studies..

CA is too tough to handle .my boss at my office also appreciates me but somehow i feel like a looser as i don't have any gf

which is a greater feeling ?? holding hands with gf, loving her,having sex OR reputation , money , respect ??

I know that if i waste my time now then i would not be able to achieve my dreams of having lots of money and respect in future....

does wasting my important 2-3 years now for a girlfriend( true love + lust)is really a correct choice??

or i should just concentrate on my work?? what should i do???

I am a 20 Years old guy . I am doing Chartered accountancy course which is considered very tough and i know that i am ready for it . under this course we have to undergo 3 years articleship(internship).

so presently i am working as an article in a big company (mazars) . its going all good.my seniors appreciate me for my work..i have good friends with whom i talk but i feel depressed and sad sometimes because i do not have any girl friend at this point of time . 95% of my friends are male and only 5 % are female and that too not very good looking . even my friends who have make outs everyday with gf say me that my life is set . I feel very very bad when i see people holding hands or when they are in a relationship. i know that the articleship i am doing is very important for my career because these 3 years are where i can get practical exposure...may be i am depressed because i think too much about sex , love making etc when i am free at home ..even when people say that you are great , you are doing articleship from this big company ..my brain says that i am a failure..i have not done anything

I dont think i can manage a girl friend right now because i have lots of work to do..

which one is a greater feeling ?? loving a girl (not true love[lust]) , having sex ,holding hands etc or money , appreciation from boss, reputation among people, career ???

may be i have both after some years but what should i do at this point of time ??

i need help :(

I am 20 years old . i am doing CA (chartered accountancy) under which we have to undergo a training (articleship/internship) after passing one tough exam . now i passed my exam and i applied myself in big 4 ( ernst and young) . there were many candidates who dropped their Cv but they only selected 4 out of many . i am one of them . there were 3 rounds( GD, HR , TECHNICAL) which i have cleared( just got a call a while ago) .In this training we will be taught about audit.we have to audit various companies and stuff for 3 years . now the HR manager has told me to join from monday but i do not know why i am really really scared .i am not sure if i am able to learn what ever will be taught in ernst and young..what will happen if i dont understand ..what if some one insults me ..what if no one is friendly ..what if i get scolded..

i mean these type of things are going in my head right now...personally i am a shy guy..

does it happen with everyone ? What should i do? how to be confident when learning new things ..i need urgent help

I am 20 years old . i am doing CA (chartered accountancy) under which we have to undergo a training (articleship/internship) after passing one tough exam . now i passed my exam and i applied myself in big 4 ( ernst and young) . there were many candidates who dropped their Cv but they only selected 4 out of many . i am one of them . there were 3 rounds( GD, HR , TECHNICAL) which i have cleared( just got a call a while ago) .In this training we will be taught about audit.we have to audit various companies and stuff for 3 years . now the HR manager has told me to join from monday but i do not know why i am really really scared .i am not sure if i am able to learn what ever will be taught in ernst and young..what will happen if i dont understand ..what if some one insults me ..what if no one is friendly ..what if i get scolded..

i mean these type of things are going in my head right now...personally i am a shy guy..

does it happen with everyone ? What should i do? how to be confident when learning new things ..i need urgent help

I am 20 years old guy . i am pursuing chartered accountancy which is known for its toughness. its a 4 year course and i am in 2nd year. that means still 2 more years of immense hard work and concentration . now thats not the problem , i know that i am a hard worker and i can do it but i am depressed because i dont have any female friend. when i see my friends with female friends or girl friends i feel jealous. when i see their pics with any hot female friend i feel very very bad. when i go out to any market or any mall i feel very very distracted when i see any hot girl. now a days i have started to feel restless because i keep thinking about love , sex a s s , p-u-s-s-y and all..... Though i am handsome but my communication skills with girls (romantic) are very poor..i can love a girl passionatly but i dont know how to flirt , i dont know how to compliment............girls dont like me i guess..even if they do after having conversation they loose interest in me ....i feel very very bad

now what should i do?? should i accept this situation of girls disliking me for the next 2 years and focus on my studies OR should i leave this course and start flirting loving and having sex with girls ??

This course needs immense concentration and hard work and if i do both then i dont think i can pass this course...and i mean it ?? what should i do???

I am 20 years old guy . i am pursuing chartered accountancy which is known for its toughness. its a 4 year course and i am in 2nd year. that means still 2 more years of immense hard work and concentration . now thats not the problem , i know that i am a hard worker and i can do it but i am depressed because i dont have any female friend. when i see my friends with female friends or girl friends i feel jealous. when i see their pics with any hot female friend i feel very very bad. when i go out to any market or any mall i feel very very distracted when i see any hot girl. now a days i have started to feel restless because i keep thinking about love , sex a s s , p-u-s-s-y and all..... Though i am handsome but my communication skills with girls (romantic) are very poor..i can love a girl passionatly but i dont know how to flirt , i dont know how to compliment............girls dont like me i guess..even if they do after having conversation they loose interest in me ....i feel very very bad

now what should i do?? should i accept this situation of girls disliking me for the next 2 years and focus on my studies OR should i leave this course and start flirting loving and having sex with girls ??

This course needs immense concentration and hard work and if i do both then i dont think i can pass this course...and i mean it ?? what should i do???

I am 20 years old guy . i am pursuing chartered accountancy which is known for its toughness. its a 4 year course and i am in 2nd year. that means still 2 more years of immense hard work and concentration . now thats not the problem , i know that i am a hard worker and i can do it but i am depressed because i dont have any female friend. when i see my friends with female friends or girl friends i feel jealous. when i see their pics with any hot female friend i feel very very bad. when i go out to any market or any mall i feel very very distracted when i see any hot girl. now a days i have started to feel restless because i keep thinking about love , sex a s s , p-u-s-s-y and all..... Though i am handsome but my communication skills with girls (romantic) are very poor..i can love a girl passionatly but i dont know how to flirt , i dont know how to compliment............girls dont like me i guess..even if they do after having conversation they loose interest in me ....i feel very very bad

now what should i do?? should i accept this situation of girls disliking me for the next 2 years and focus on my studies OR should i leave this course and start flirting loving and having sex with girls ??

This course needs immense concentration and hard work and if i do both then i dont think i can pass this course...and i mean it ?? what should i do???

I am 20 years old guy. i am pursuing chartered accountancy course which is known for its toughness.its a 4 year course.I am in 2nd year , that means 2 more years to go. now this course demands high concentration and hard work. i am ready to do it but when i think of girls i become depressed.like when i see my friends who are in college having sex , having true love with girls , i feel extreme jealous.i just think of leaving this course and engaging in these girls affair . when ever i log on to facebook , my heart beats increases as i always feel jealous when any of my friends have any pic clicked with female or gf ..

what should i do at this point of time?? should i indulge in sex and girls? is it that much fun?? or should i just concentrate on studies?

I am 20 years old guy. my weight is 67 kg (147 lbs) . now my hands , legs , chest , shoulders are thin..like if someone sees my these body part they will say that i need to eat more ..i need to be healthy ..but i have a little bit tummy and i have facial fat specially chubby cheeks..i mean i am 20 but because of those chubby cheeks people think me as a 14-15 year guy.

i need help..am i fat or thin? i dont excersise at all..should i eat more to become healthy or should i eat less to become thin...i am more concerned about my facial fat...tummy does not affect me much......... please suggest me some excersises :(

Well i am 19 years old..i am very very under confident ..i am always very conscious about my looks.when ever i am talking to some one deep down my head i keep thinking that i am looking ugly...now i am very intelligent in academics....for the last 1 year i have been dreaming of doing my internship from big 4 ( ERNST AND YOUNG ) ..now because of my academic performance i have got a call from EY to appear for an interview tomorrow..if i get selected then i will do my articleship for the next 3.5 years.....

now i am seriously scared...not because of interview..i know that i can crack the interview..but i am scared about my personality ..there will be people who will have attractive personality , who are good at public speaking ...i am very very depressed now..if i get selected then how will i deal with those people..i am very very shy ..i keep thinking about my looks specially my teeth ...

i always wanted to be a part of EY and then become CEO of a big company in future..but when the oppurtunity has come i have become scared because of my personality..i need urgent help :(

Well i am 19 years old..i am very very under confident ..i am always very conscious about my looks.when ever i am talking to some one deep down my head i keep thinking that i am looking ugly...now i am very intelligent in academics....for the last 1 year i have been dreaming of doing my internship from big 4 ( ERNST AND YOUNG ) ..now because of my academic performance i have got a call from EY to appear for an interview tomorrow..if i get selected then i will do my articleship for the next 3.5 years.....

now i am seriously scared...not because of interview..i know that i can crack the interview..but i am scared about my personality ..there will be people who will have attractive personality , who are good at public speaking ...i am very very depressed now..if i get selected then how will i deal with those people..i am very very shy ..i keep thinking about my looks specially my teeth ...

i always wanted to be a part of EY and then become CEO of a big company in future..but when the oppurtunity has come i have become scared because of my personality..i need urgent help :(

I am 20 years old guy.i am studying chartered accountancy course which is very tough and has very high value in market.i need 3 more years to complete it .now i have friends who are all males.i dont know why but no female is interested in talking to me .i have great looks therefore for the first time almost every girl is like attracted towards me but soon after me they loose interest in me and they never try to talk to me . i have only a group of friends who are all males..with whom i have lots of fun.

these days when ever i go to facebook and see my friends with female friends or girl friend , i feel extreme jealousy ..i feel sad and i feel like throwing this course books which i am presently in a dustbin . i do not have a personal car or i dont get any pocket money from my parents so that i can attract any girl.

is this a reason to worry?? i have thought many times of having female friends and gf and then do the studies simultaneously but ca course is tough and it needs a lot of hard work and concentration..what should i do?? should i concentrate on female friends or only on studies ?

I am 20 years old guy.i am studying chartered accountancy course which is very tough and has very high value in market.i need 3 more years to complete it .now i have friends who are all males.i dont know why but no female is interested in talking to me .i have great looks therefore for the first time almost every girl is like attracted towards me but soon after me they loose interest in me and they never try to talk to me . i have only a group of friends who are all males..with whom i have lots of fun.

these days when ever i go to facebook and see my friends with female friends or girl friend , i feel extreme jealousy ..i feel sad and i feel like throwing this course books which i am presently in a dustbin . i do not have a personal car or i dont get any pocket money from my parents so that i can attract any girl.

is this a reason to worry?? i have thought many times of having female friends and gf and then do the studies simultaneously but ca course is tough and it needs a lot of hard work and concentration..what should i do?? should i concentrate on female friends or only on studies ?

i am 20 years old guy..i have facial fat and i have a bit tummy..i mostly lift 5 kg or 7.5 kg dumbbell on each hand..i know its very less..i have been lifting the same weight..even after 1 month i can't see any difference in my facial fat or my tummy... ..i am eating what is being told my the trainer..

now please tell me does lifting more weight reduce your fat faster??

what difference does it have on ones body if some one picks 5 kg and the other lifts 10kg dumbbell????

help me

i am 20 years old guy..i have facial fat and i have a bit tummy..i mostly lift 5 kg or 7.5 kg dumbbell on each hand..i know its very less..i have been lifting the same weight..even after 1 month i can't see any difference in my facial fat or my tummy... ..i am eating what is being told my the trainer..

now please tell me does lifting more weight reduce your fat faster??

what difference does it have on ones body if some one picks 5 kg and the other lifts 10kg dumbbell????

help me

I am a 20 years guy..i have recently joined a gym . initially i started it in morning and i was really going well..i took a lot of interest in it .but now because of some personal problem i have to go in evening. during the evening time there are many hot girls in the gym.i just can't concentrate on my workout ..more over some guys really flirt with them, they make them laugh , they always see a chance to talk to them ..i feel extremely jealous ...please help me ..i am really a shy kind of guy..i dont have female friends........should i just focus on my gym workout and think that in future i can get many of those or should i try to talk to them ?????

i am 20 years old guy..i never play any type of outdoor game like football , lawn tennis etc ..,presently i am having my holidays therefore for the last 2 months i have been sitting at home on bed..i masturbate once everyday..i am a lean guy who has little bit of tummy..now 2 days back i have joined a gym..i do treadmill for 1 km because trainer has told me that i dont have fat ..i can only run continously for 200 metres at 10-11 speed maximum..then i have to reduce my speed to 6 or even 4 ..i just can't run 1 km on treadmill on 10-11 continously....even at home when i am in hurry for something ..i start to breathe heavily...

How do i increase my stamina?...can i die because of this???..please help me ?

if anyone says do cardio then please tell me what does it include and how many sets or times i have to do it ? ..

I am 20 years old...i always think if i look younger than that which seems bad to me...

how do i look? am i average , ugly or cute or hot ?? what?

how is my smile..i am very worried of my smile..because its little bit slanted...

do i look good clean shaven or i should i have beard...and which style???

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