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I am trying to monitor my network and all of the devices that access the web in my home. I have logged into the router and enabled the logging feature, but I am confused about how exactly it works. When I log in and look at it, it seems like I have to be logged in to it and other computers running in order for me to see all the logs. Also it only gives me the LAN IP, Destination IP, and Service/port number. when i copy the destination ip and paste it into the browser, it says it cannot be displayed, how do I get it to convert it to readable url/websites so they take me to the site? why doesn't it work? My router is a linksys wrt54g, the firmware is version 1.00. Also I'm trying to track websites visited through the kindle and playstation, not just computers. How do I do this?

I don't know what to do, I am totally lost. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months, he is a recovering alcoholic, he was 15 months sober until 2 weeks ago. I knew this was a high likelihood that he would relapse and accepted that. The first time he drank, he told me. I was proud of him for that, but he started lying about going back to his aa meetings and then a week later he said he had drank again while i was away visiting my aunt. this all started when i moved out due to personal reasons, we were doing just fine. we decided we were still together and we would spend a number of days together hanging out. he called me last thursday to tell me that he lied to me that evening and that he never intended to go to his meeting and he was drinking again. we had issues with lying about watching porn 6 months prior, and i told him that porn is still a deal breaker for this relationship and that i would like to check his history periodically seeing that the last time we had issues with it we were living separately. but after doing my research on how to hide porn it is obviously futile, if he is going to watch it behind my back there is virtually nothing i can do to find it, if he really intends to hide it. so i dont know what to do about trusting him again. he will tell you he lies when he drinks, so i don't know what to do. he called this morning to give me "fair warning, he slipped again last night with the drinking." I love him very much, and i know if he had the choice to be able to lock it away forever easily he would, its harder than that, its like needing to breathe for him, but this is destroying all confidence i have in our relationship. my question is ......would it be alright to ask his mother for advice on what to do about our relationship? I know I can't fix this, he has to choose to do the work, but I can choose how much I will put up with, I don't want to be the fool that sticks around waiting for something that is never going to change. It is not my intention to air our dirty laundry with her or get her on my side, i just dont know who to go to for help. My mother passed away 3 years ago and my father and I are not on speaking terms. his parents and I get along great, i dont want to cause tension between them? I am an only child and my family is not close knit. I want to salvage this if possible, but i cant do it alone.

whats the longest its taken to finally get a positive pregnancy test? I have heard of people getting positive results very early and people getting repeated negative tests.

here's the scoop.....I left my husband 6 months ago because I just wasn't happy being there, which was making him very unhappy. I have been going to counseling to figure out what happend and made me so unhappy. I got married at 22, never had been on my own and my counselor says I had a traumatic childhood and upbringing. I just stuffed all that crap so I never really thought it was that bad. Anywho, I took the last six months to examine myself and my feelings and came to the conclusion that I wasn't going home. Counselor also agrees, that I was not going home. We have been married for 3 years, we have no children, we don't own a house, so its fairly uncomplicated. So the question is now what? What is the most simple/cheap way to do this. We already agreed that there is not going to be any fighting over anything and that we don't need lawyers. We have already divided (verbally) what stuff goes to who. I have heard of getting a divorce online, but I know nothing about it. We don't want expensive or complicated. Is there a way we can do this without court dates and lawyers?

Some sites that have the chinese birth chart say to go from the age of the mother at the time of conception and others say age of the mother at the time of birth. Which one is the most accurate?

I know you guys probably get bombarded with questions like this all the time, and I have been looking for previous post that are similar to my question but I'm not coming up with anything. Throughout the last month, we have not been the safest either, so its possible. And I know that. I just want to know, if I am why not pos results. And when I would know the neg is really neg.

I'm not sure if I had my period....I know..."How does one not know?" Anyway, I had a normal period around jan 11 (normal being starts thick brownish for a day, goes to red day and a half , and back to brown, then done) never terribly heavy maybe go through 4 tampons per day. Ended up having sex jan 21, spur of the moment morning, no condom for the first half, he started to go so I moved, real, smart. Went to the store and purchased plan b, and took it like 2 hours later. Looked up ovulation calculator and it said ovulation days jan 22-27. On Jan 30 (more than a week early for my period) i started having mucousy discharge with a red tinge to it for 2 days, then it went to blood , but not like flowy or anything (I could use one tampon for the whole day and not worry cuz it didnt soak through) for a day or so. Then turned brownish but still not flowy. Only really there while cleaning up after using the toilet. If it was my period, then it was like 10 days early. So I assumed it wasn't really my period and calculated from my last normal cycle when my next one was due which was around feb 8. So on the 9th I took a pregnancy test, it was negative. Which would be a day late for my normal cycle. If what was going on Jan 30 was a period, I was expecting a period around the 27th, which never showed. So last night I took a pregnancy test, because going off that cycle I'm still late. It also came back negative. I am never ever ever late for anything, especially my period. If I go off my last normal cycle my next expected would be march 7, but I don't feel like its coming or anything ( usually I know the week before). What is the problem. My boyfriend was alittle dissappointed in the negative result last night.

I have a confusing and possibly tricky question about medicaid. I am 25 and uninsured. I recently got laid off, so I am unemployed and qualify for unemployment. I think I might be pregnant, alittle nerve wracking! I know to you have to list resources, car under certain values are exempt (my car has a salvage title, but its decent, still under the value), trusts, checking, savings, stocks/bonds, etc. My question is....my mother passed away 2 years ago and left everything to me which included money in money markets which went into a trust for me, we sold the house, that money also went into the trust. Trick is, It doesn't get turned over to me until I'm 26 which is in july. So would they count that as a resource even though I don't have access to it. It currently is under the care of my aunt but I don't think she has free access to it to write checks from it. So, what do you think?

I know you guys probably get bombarded with questions like this all the time, and I have been looking for previous post that are similar to my question but I'm not coming up with anything.

I'm not sure if I had my period....I know..."How does one not know?" Anyway, I had a normal period around jan 11 (normal being starts thick brownish for a day, goes to red day and a half , and back to brown, then done) never terribly heavy maybe go through 4 tampons per day. Ended up having sex jan 21, spur of the moment morning, no condom for the first half, he started to go so I moved, real, smart. Went to the store and purchased plan b, and took it like 2 hours later. Looked up ovulation calculator and it said ovulation days jan 22-27. On Jan 30 (more than a week early for my period) i started having mucousy discharge with a red tinge to it for 2 days, then it went to blood , but not like flowy or anything (I could use one tampon for the whole day and not worry cuz it didnt soak through) for a day or so. Then turned brownish but still not flowy. Only really there while cleaning up after using the toilet. So, I'm not sure what the heck that was. I don't know if it was my period or if it was a side effect from the plan b. My lower abdomen has felt like I'm getting ready for my period and now my breast are tender and this is all way after the e.c. and my "period", if thats what it actually was. Anybody got an idea of what the heck is going on. If I am pregnant, I'm not too concerned about it, I'm just wondering if its probable.

Thanks

For anybody that wants to jump on the "your ignorant, stupid and have no reason to be having sex" train. Please don't I'm 25, in a committed relationship and I got and education. I'm just alittle confused about what my body is doing.

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A pregnancy test would save time, but I'm pretty sure its too early for that. And typing this is kind of a form of therapy and it helps me not get sooo worked up about it because i feel like I'm doing something about it rather than just sitting and waiting to see what happens.

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Also, I noticed along time ago (like when I was in my teens) that the color of the opening to the vagina changes colors. It goes from a very white color(any normal day)to a pink color (when im close to menstrating). I checked and its still whitish. ?? Sorry for the tmi.

Im just curious if anybody has legitimately had no symptoms of pregnancy. I've seen the shows where they didn't know they were pregnant because they didn't have symptoms, only to come to find out at the end of the show they had some symptoms, they just missed them.

Dante Octavian Anderson

I don't think i'm pregnant, but its a possiblity, but I'm always playing the name game. I like to be prepared. So what do you think of these names.

Boys

Dante Octavian

Everett Liam Lucifer

Benjamin Cael

Elijah Cole

Girls

Isabelle Aaryn

Cordelia Danielle Marie

Cordelia Danielle

Willow Averi

Rowdy Lynn Marie

I know you guys probably get bombarded with questions like this all the time, and I have been looking for previous post that are similar to my question but I'm not coming up with anything.

I'm not sure if I had my period....I know..."How does one not know?" Anyway, I had a normal period around jan 11 (normal being starts thick brownish for a day, goes to red day and a half , and back to brown, then done) never terribly heavy maybe go through 4 tampons per day. Ended up having sex jan 21, spur of the moment morning, no condom for the first half, he started to go so I moved, real, smart. Went to the store and purchased plan b, and took it like 2 hours later. Looked up ovulation calculator and it said ovulation days jan 22-27. On Jan 30 (more than a week early for my period) i started having mucousy discharge with a red tinge to it for 2 days, then it went to blood , but not like flowy or anything (I could use one tampon for the whole day and not worry cuz it didnt soak through) for a day or so. Then turned brownish but still not flowy. Only really there while cleaning up after using the toilet. So, I'm not sure what the heck that was. I don't know if it was my period or if it was a side effect from the plan b. My lower abdomen has felt like I'm getting ready for my period and now my breast are tender and this is all way after the e.c. and my "period", if thats what it actually was. Anybody got an idea of what the heck is going on. If I am pregnant, I'm not too concerned about it, I'm just wondering if its probable.

Thanks

For anybody that wants to jump on the "your ignorant, stupid and have no reason to be having sex" train. Please don't I'm 25, in a committed relationship and I got and education. I'm just alittle confused about what my body is doing.

A few months ago my boyfriend and I had a discussion about porn. I told him that I don't approve of it because I feel it is demeaning to women. He told me he deleted all of the porn from his kindle, which he did and he would stop using it because he no longer needed it. I told him that I would appreciate that because I didn't want to put those kinds of restrictions on him. Last night I grabbed his phone to check something on the internet and guess what popped up! I turned the phone to him and asked him what it was. He said porn, he knew I wasn't happy. I think I am more hurt by the fact that he lied to me about it and then hid it from me. I love him, if I didn't those actions wouldn't have hurt me because I wouldn't care. I want to trust and forgive him. I don't know how and he wants me to tell him what he needs to do in order for me to trust him again. I don't want to put all kinds of restrictions on him to make myself feel better but I don't want to constantly doubt. I understand old habits are hard to break. At first I thought, not allowing the phone in the bathroom and no closing the bathroom door would help and it would but I also think thats kind of unreasonable. I would appreciate it if he didn't take the phone with him to the bathroom, thats just alittle too suspicious. I know he is going to falter and make mistakes. Since I can't get rid of the phone, and regulate every move he makes, is it reasonable to at least want to know when he has viewed porn that way it wouldn't feel like hes hiding it. Or is that just going to give him the go ahead to do it even though I don' t like it? I don't want him to stop trying but I also don't want him to think its ok as long as I tell her. What do we do?

I got my degee and have graduated and spent the last two years looking for a job that my degree is necessary for and that I enjoy. I have worked in a hospital laboratory, I enjoyed working with the specimens and testing them, but I don't want to work with patients. I have also worked at an animal feed testing facility and absolutely loved it, but its only temp work and there aren't many other testing laboratories that I can find, especially in the location my husband and I want to move. What other types of laboratory jobs are out there? I don't think I really care what I am running tests on. I just like getting specimens or samples, running the tests and sending out results. I wish I would have had better direction in the career department before I graduated. I feel like I am waisting time and that my life is just running on a hamster wheel.

My puppy, Kai, is 11 weeks old. He knows how to sit, but does it incorrectly most of the time. When he sits down he immediately rolls back onto his butt with his back legs pushed forward, instead of having his feet under him. It drives me nuts. He knows how to sit correctly, but he is lazy and doesn't do it often. How do I get him to sit the way he is supposed to? I don't want him to be any harder on his hips than he already is. He is a german shepherd.

We lost our 11 month old german shepherd puppy to liver cancer recently. My husband wants to get another one soonish, and I think I do too, but I am not quite sure if it is the right thing to do. The thought of potty training and puppy howling at night are a turn off but not having a dog in the house doesn't make me happy either. I have the time right now to stay home and work on potty training before I start a new job, so that would be a plus of getting one right now. I just don't know how long people generally wait after losing a pet before getting another one.

After a week of being at the vets, getting treated for the "it could be"s, getting transfusions, shots, and pills, and being very lethargic with an abdomen full of blood, that wasn't realized until 5 days after he was admitted, my 11 month old puppy, not even a year old yet, had exploratory surgery, where they found his liver riddled with cancer. He was put down last night before he even woke up from the surgery. How did he get this? I cannot find anything on the internet, the vets are pretty well stumped and I can't even wrap my head around not having my puppy anymore. Did he get it from his food? Is is environmental? Did I expose him to something that caused this? Was it genetic? HELP!

Has anyone ever had an asymptomatic or fairly asymptomatic pregnancy?

Isabelle Aaryn

Cordelia Danielle

Everett Marcus

Wyatt Jordan

Cordelia Danielle Smith. Cordelia has been growing on my husband, which is quite amazing seeing that there are almost 0 girl names that he likes!