Davion

I’m 22, 23 in June and I’ve dated a total of 5 girls and nothing ever lasts. I don’t if it’s me or am I just unlucky but I need a wife 

My brother 26,almost 27 called me a low life because the other day he found out my mother and my other older brother helped me pay my car not these last 3 months. But the thing is they offered the help so how am I a low life ? When I tell him that they offered me some help, he says I need to grow up and pay my car not because everyone else pays their own. I just hate him, I think he’s the low life for trying to make me feel

Bad for needs some help. Prior to this I have payed my own note and never asked him or anyone for a dime, even when I was almost in danger of a repossession I paid the late fee but now I’m struggling again it didn’t make me a low life. 

I don’t understand why I owe them so much if I only made 33k this year. I filed single and I paid federal taxes every pack check. My state refund was $90. So I owe $540 total. 

Should I just wait until April to file or will they take $600 out of my check immediately? Even though I don’t have $600? Or will they just take as much as they can leaving my account to zero? 

I’m just asking because I never knew. I was watching the super bowl and I after the bucs won, Brady was hugging a few of teammates and the my older brother says “look at Brady hugging all these black people knowing he hates them.” I was just shocked because I didn’t know he was racist.. I’m black and my brother is black of course and I never Brady was a racist. Did he ever say he hated black people or is it just known? 

Ok so I scheduled an oil change for Saturday at 3.30 pm. When I got there the guy was saying he did not see an appointment under my name and I told him that I definitely made an appointment. Another worker told him that there was an appointment for 3.30 under my name and he ended up finding it. Then he goes on to say that they didn't have the filter for my car that the dealership was about to close that If I make an appointment it should be in the morning on Saturdays. He said I could make an appointment for Tuesday for 8 in the morning and I said okay. But honestly I was kinda pissed. I got an oil change from there before and yes they were all I. The morning but nothing like ever happened. I think, I deserve some kind of compensation, its not my fault that they didn't have the right filter for my car, which I call bs. I think he was just lazy because the dealership was closing soon and he wasn't expecting since I didnt show up in his list of appointments for some reason. I really thinking about asking for some sort of compensation for this. I shouldnt 

have to drive in the snow for no reason. 

I guess I was complaining about my car not and insurance being too high. I usually am ok with it but these last 2 months been sort of hard paying my $159 insurance and $260 note. And someone said well cars are luxury items that you don’t need and that I shouldn’t have a expensive car. I told him maybe you consider a car a luxury item but I need my car to get around. Catching a uber sometimes is okay but it is not a good means of transportation. And a public bus is bad because of the rona virus lol. But yeah I get it’s not a necessity like food, clothes and water but it’s something I do use everyday to help me get where I need to be. So for me it’s almost like a necessity. 

I’m just asking because I’ve heard that girls like big and tall men. Well I’m Kinda Tall, 6,2 and I’m around 230 pounds, mostly fat but I’m not too fat looking in clothes haha. But this guy that I work with always have girls talking to him, and he’s not tall,  maybe 5’9 at the most. And he’s skinny. But I’ll admit, you can say that he looks better than me in the face and I think that’s why girls love him so much. My face isn’t the worst but it is pretty bad I guess lol. But yeah this guy gets all the ladies, I even heard two girls sort of arguing over him, both calling him their “man”. So I’m starting to think the face trumps over thing. 

I’m not saying every single night be treated better than a man but for the most part women are treated better. I don’t if it’s just at my Job but the female workers get away with so much. And The men are expected to the more work for the same amount of pay. I mean I don’t mind helping a female lift something heavy but damn we get paid the same, nobody isn’t helping me lift anything heavy.. I actually used to think women had a lot problems and maybe had it harder but now  I think in a lot of ways women have it pretty good. 

I noticed that I’ve been thirty a lot. I’ve always had a problem with theist dry lips but seems like it’s gotten worse. And I’m always hungry, well not always but a lot. Sometimes I can eat a full meal and be hungry again in an hour. I’ve also been having headaches. Do you think it could be diabetes. Diabetes does run in my family. 

I asked my one of my older brothers for $50 so I could pay my phone bill. He says okay. This brother always have money and my family always say I can come to them for anything so I didn’t think it was a big deal. I was literally one day late paying him back , and calls me, cussing saying, I’m a piece of sht, and that I’m a loser, that never pays people back in time. I told him I have his money and that I had forgot. He says yeah right, and that I didn’t forget to buy myself food that day. Then he goes on to say he doesn’t even want the $50 and to never ask him for sht again and hung up.  I’m 22 and he’s 26 and I think he’s done something similar to this with my other brothers. I don’t if I’m truly a bad brother abs deserved to be cursed out and disrespected or what. I sent him the money but he never said thank you or anything..

So this girl that i work with said she would not date this guy who is black and very dark because dark guys are sneaky, always up to no good and are cheaters. Now this is a dark skinned black girl, and when i asked her would date me. She said im okay, but the thing is i have the same skin color, im really dark black. We are all black and i think its crazy to judge each other like this. 

I'm actually black and I just find it annoying when people say "if black lives matter then where is the outrage for black killing black?". I get that a lot of people are probably just racist but it's just a dumb thing to say. Just because I support black lives matter does not mean I only care when white people kill black people. First of all people outrage and protest because black people have been oppressed and treated lesser just because of our race since the beginning so of course we are upset that this still goes on. And I also understand that black killing another black man is bad, because people have done a lot for our freedom just so we can kill each other, and for what? Drugs or money? or just simply because you dont like them? It's all stupid...

 My birthday is june 21 and I'm going to be 22 and I know every birthday is a  blessing but I've always been annoyed that my birthday always fall in the same week as father day and In this case it's the same day. I was actually born on Father's Day lol and my dad used to brag about it about when i was younger, saying I was a Father's Day baby and I was the last kid so I guess that made him happy lol? but it's annoying to me because I have to give my dad a gift and so do my brothers so I don't think my birthday is as important if that makes sense? But I do think my brother had it worse since his birthday is december 22nd so it always fell a few days short of Christmas, that must be kinda hard but at least his is not on Christmas day I guess lol. 

 My birthday is june 21 and I'm going to be 22 and I know every birthday is a  blessing but I've always been annoyed that my birthday always fall in the same week as father day and In this case it's the same day. I was actually born on Father's Day lol and my dad used to brag about it about when i was younger, saying I was a Father's Day baby and I was the last kid so I guess that made him happy lol? but it's annoying to me because I have to give my dad a gift and so do my brothers so I don't think my birthday is as important if that makes sense? But I do think my brother had it worse since his birthday is december 22nd so it always fell a few days short of Christmas, that must be kinda hard but at least his is not on Christmas day I guess lol. 

Let’s say he talks to you about his problems when he isn’t feeling good. Saying he feels his heart is bothering because his chest hurts or his stomach hurts. But if you or another family brings up going to the doctor then he gets mad. Then what, you’re a concerned son and don’t want your father to die or get really sick? 

He talks to me about how he is feeling. He's 61. Sometimes he tells me when he's not feeling that good. One day he told me that his stomach was aching badly, so I tried giving him so Tylenol. Today he said he thinks he has an overlarge heart because of the drinking he did. He says sometimes his hearts hurt but then other days he feels fine. Sometimes this is a lot to take in. He tells me not to tell anyone because last time he told my mom, they got into an argument so I don't, it's just hard hearing my dad suffering with his body like this. I  also have older brothers but I haven't told them about what our father tells me. I'm the son he trusts, and  I don't know how can i help him?

My dumb coworker keeps asking me to race him on this highway. I’m not trying to sound scared but I’m not that type of driver and I’ve only been driving for 8 months. Idk how long he’s been driving but he’s 24 and I’m 21. My thing is I said no and now he’s saying I’m scared. I’m not scared but at the same time I don’t really want to, idk if I just should do it to shut him up. 

I have a Ford Fusion 2013 se and he does have a charger but it’s older looks older than my car but unknown chargers are fast cars. Which car do you think should win? 

I’m sort of scared that I might get the coronavirus. Ive been going to work with a mask on the past few days lol. 

It’s hard for to word my question. But I’m asking because I know boys run heavily on my moms side. My mom has 6 brothers and only one sister and they both happen to be the last 2 born with my mom being the youngest. And I have a lot male cousins from my moms side 

But my dads side is pretty even he only has 2 sisters. I have 4 older brothers, I have no sisters and I’m the last born boy. My dad used to say he always wanted a daughter lol. the thing is my oldest brother is the only one that has a child and its a girl. So is it really just random?

 I was telling my gf that I wanted a daughter but I know I’d most likely have a boy and she told me it’s random. But I also heard that if a certain gender runs in your family then you’ll most likely have that gender?

I’ve bed. Going out with her since October. I was talking about my plans for Valentine’s Day, and he walked out of the room. He recently broke up with gf. And I’ve also noticed when ever my other brother talks about getting married to his fiancé that he tried changing the subject. He’s 23 and I’m 21. I understand maybe his break up is getting to him and it’s tomorrow’s bday but I didn’t do anything to him , my other 26 year old bro is the same way. He can brag about all of the good things going for him, but when you have positive things to say for yourself then he changes the subject And never congratulate . This is why I sometimes hate having brothers they are so negative and want to be better than u all the time.  Well not my brother that is getting married, he’s the only cool one haha.