Peter S

Ok so here the story goes... I really liked a girl since the beginning of my 1st year in Highschool (10th form ~ 17 y.o), But something stoped me from confessing to her the whole year,but we still made somekind of bond like friends although i was happy with that for the moment.

After the school term ended i invited her out and confessed, and i got "okay", we dated for 1 month but it didn't feel right, i had the strange feeling that she was boxed in, she didn't give me any signs ( you know what i mean) or anything i was her first Bf and perfectly understand that it might feel awkward but still ... anyways on one interesting evening i couldn't hold it in any longer and asked her directly what she thought about our relationship, well the answer was simple "I see you as friend ... for now and if you accept me like that then we can ..." at that moment i really felt as if a Giant Hammer smashed my interns but i simply replied "I'll wait" and since then (2 weeks) we haven't met once... we only talked on the phone in a hurry..

So my question is simple: Did i rush things or it's her fault or what hapened? =X

Ok so here's my little problem all the time when i go out to a party with my friends we try and hang out and im always the one that is extremely seriouse all the time and im left out in a way ... they can find a couple of girls there and start flirting even though they have girlfriends... and i feel so awkward,and i just don't know what to do .... To continue being distant from every girl exept my gf or to try be more approachable or the problem is in me maybe im ugly i don't know

Here's a photo i just made in a hurry ...

http://i429.photobucket.com/albums/qq13/No_0ne_Pet...