I just don't get it !! (Girls please lend me your wisdom)!!!!!!!?

She most likely feels pushed into the relationship, it might have been a bad move on your part to try and rush it. Oftentimes guys mistake things that girls say/do that make them think they like them. If she's a friend, she just might not be into you. It's nothing against you, she just likes you as a friend. Try and retain the friend relationship, and in the meantime, find a chance to talk to her in person, and ask her what she wants. Make it clear you want the straight-up truth. You don't want any uncertainty between you and her, and if she just wants to be friends, accept it. Try not to feel any anger over it, or blame yourself if she doesn't want to have an intimate relationship with you.

Simple answer: You definitely rushed it. At this point, you're not definite on if she likes you. Try not to imagine things, if she just wants to be friends, so be it. You might not get over her, but you can try and put feelings for her aside, and maybe see other people.

It's by no means her fault, she can't help what she feels and isn't trying to hurt you (at least not that I think) but you didn't really rush things if she said okay and you waited a whole year to ask her out. I'd say take things reeaallly slow now, cause you dont want to hurt your relationship a second time. Just give her space and act more as a friend than a bf for now, and hopefully in time she'll start to see you more in a less platonic light. Just be aware that she may never like you for more than a buddy, and you might have to live ith that. Try not to push her.... hope this helped <3

She might not be ready. Either give things time or call her and invite her too an outing. If u want to get closer to her, u have to start off as friends. By what u mentioned, shes the type of girl who has to get to know you before starting a relationship. Though she hasn't had any experience (frum what u told me) Then maybe she could be confused about boys. Or she just might want to play it safe, If thats the case, Then U should probably let her get to know u. She might just not know enough about you yet. Any of this could be possible.

You sound like the kind of guy that truly respects girls. I admire you for that. Based on what you've said, it doesn't seem that you rushed it at all. You've known her for a year already. I'm guessing that she's just not ready. You're her first boyfriend, and she has to get used to it. Give her some time and try to not push her into things.

No, defienetly not your fault, she just didn't feel the same as you did. It's better that she didn't lead on and pretend like things were okay, you would got even closer and you would feel even more crushed than you are now. sometimes you just have to go after what you want in life and if it doesn't want you back, then you deserve better anyways..don't let this get you down. there's a million other girls out there..good luck!! =]]

purely ask her why are you attempting so stressful to make me jealous or flirt with me? in case you like me why do not you purely say so and so i will get on with asking to you out? lool i'm hoping that enables reliable good fortune

It sounds like it's nobodys fault.. She just needs time.

For you, it's been a long time.. But for her, it's new. Also if you were friends before, and you're her first boyfriend, she's probably confused.

But i could also be completely wrong. xD

i think you did give her time

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from where can girls get wisdom?they dont have any..