ponygrl

A little background first.. My bf and I have been together for over 7 years and have a 5 year old daughter together. ( I am 34, hes 29) I have a son from a previous marriage, so needless to say, he has practically raised him. (the ex husband only sees him 1-2 times a year, his own doing). my son is a good kid, smart, helpful, VERY well mannered. we have raised our kids to always do well and be respectful!! Thats not an issue. The issue is, my bf is angry because my son, although a good kid, likes to plunder and made the very poor decision to take a pocket knife, belonging to my bf, and wasnt honest about taking it. My bf got so mad, he moved out 2 weeks ago, ( leaving behind most of his belongings) saying although he is SOOO in love with me, and cant imagine his life without me, just doesnt know if he can live with my son anymore. Although we have continued to get along during his separation, he still refuses to come home, saying it " kills him to not be here" and hes" hurting too". When i bring up the fact that it was his desision to leave, he keeps saying he "didnt have a choice". On one hand Im mad as hell, on the other, my heart is breaking for the togetherness of my family. Is he not thinking about how I feel, or our daughter!? I feel like hes making excuses.( I dont think its another woman or anything, Just to be clear, I can account for his whereabouts), but he isnt making much sense. Any thoughts?

First of all, Im 33, my bf and father of our 4 1/2 year old daughter is 28, soon to be 29 in Nov. Weve been together 7 years, lived together 4 1/2. Heres the issue..my baby brother just 2 days ago got married to his first gf. They JUST MET IN APRIL! I want to be happy, but I am now being ate up with even more resentment for my bf than I was prior to my brothers wedding. The brother who everyone was certain would NEVER get married. Talk about being blindsided! Anyhow, I dont feel the issue is with my brother, although I am somewhat jealous, but Im furious that my bf doesnt get the point as to why I am so hurt. Please someone help me understand why I feel so badly!

Is there anyone else here that believes this should be an 18 and older site? I see a lot of very young kids asking things like How do I kill myself? How do I make myself anorexic? It is UNBELIEVABLE how many adults are instructing these kids on HOW. to do it instead of HELPING them get help. Wth!!?

My bf and I have been together for a little over 4 1/2 years but known each other even longer. We have a 2 year old daughter together. Even up until 1 month before she was born he said he never wanted to get married because it was nothing but a piece of paper. On christmas night when I was 7 months pregnant, he proposed. Keep in mind this was 2 years ago. He gave me an engagement ring from walmart valued at less than $80.00. and since then has not spoken a word of setting a wedding date nor has he wanted to talk about a wedding. He makes good money and I work as well, full time at times working 2 jobs, so money really isn't a problem. The thing is He can always afford hunt club memberships, supplies both for hunting and fishing, dog hunting for any of you familiar with the pricetag that comes with, and He plays softball. Point is He has alot of hobbies that never include me and cost ALOT. He's a great dad but I feel like I'm on the backburner all the time. We very seldom go out of spend time with each other anymore. Something I really miss. I feel like He only purposed because it was christmas and he didn't know what else to get me Or because I was pregnant and he thought it was the right thing to do At the time. I feel this way because He out very little thought for effort into the ring He picked (it was actually just a ring, not an engagement ring) and because He keeps putting me off anytime I mention a wedding. Even if something of the sort is mentioned on tv, He quickly changes the channel, I mean wth? Any help please!!!

i am in a great relationship with this guy who is a couple years younger than me. (im 27 he's 22. 4 1/2 years difference) we dont just have a good intimate relationship but we are the best of friends. problem is his parents. they cant stand the fact he has anything to do with me because i was married once and as a result have a son, who gets along great with my boyfriend. they have a huge problem letting him grow up and be a man, which i can admit 22 is young but hes accomplished so much in those 22 years and has made more of his life than most people twice his age.he works so hard and would do anything for anyone and his parents have no respect for him.( by the way he lives on his own not with them) they are real nice when im around but do nothing but down me when im not around. they make him feel so bad and i cant stand it! weve done nothing wrong to deserve their critisism. how should he handle his parents? hes tried and tried to talk to them but nothing he's said works.